2007-03-08 13:36:07 · 33 answers · asked by Melanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask your crush to make it a group outing and tell your dad you are going out with your friends as it will not be a lie then you can hang out with the boy while you are out.♪
2007-03-08 13:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by # one 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
TRUST ME ON THIS: DO NOT LIE TO YOUR CRUSH AND TRY TO GO OUT WITH HIM! Most guys value honesty, so you should tell this guy that your dad doesnt allow you to date. You two can still be together, though. Hang out during and after school. The best thing to do would be to have your guy come to your house and meet your dad (if he doesnt want to do this, then he doesnt want you badly enough, meaning: HES NOT WORTH IT!!) If your dad is okay with it, have him come to your house to hang out, so the rents can get used to him. After a while, he will probably see that this guy is worthy of dating his daughter, and you will have yourself a boyfriend!
PS: the meeting of the parents is intimidating, so tell him how much you like him and want to be with him, it makes it worth the agony for him!
2007-03-08 13:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by D B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your dad. just politely decline. let him know that you are attracted to him as well, but you aren't dating right now. that is the best way to keep things right! if you date against your fathers wishes he WILL find out.... no matter how good you think you are at hiding it!!!! (believe me...... i've been there... and i watched a lot of my friends experience the same thing in highschool.. and it wasn't that long ago... i'm only 20) and by telling him that you like him, but aren't dating, you are letting him know how you feel, but you are also making it sound like its YOUR decision... so you don't have to be embarrassed, or feel like you are hurting his feelings....
also.... maybe you could talk to your dad about going on a "group date" with at least 3 couples. if your crush really values being able to date you, he will be up for it, and if you approach your dad in a mature way, and aren't demanding he let you date, you have a good chance of getting him to allow it. i'd recommend ASKING him what he thinks about group dating.. and (whether its true or not) tell him you agree you aren't ready for dating one on one... but group dating would be a way to still get out and have fun but not be put in awkward situations..... be open to compromise....
good luck!!! i remember how hard it can be to deal with parents!!!
2007-03-08 13:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by MnKLmT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the crush that your dad doesnt allow dating but you like him. Sit down with your dad and ask if you could hang out with him but not call it dating.
2007-03-08 13:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obey your Dad and tell your crush you would love to go with him but you have to obey your Dad. If your crush respect this, i think you will also earn his respect in return. If you think you're old enough to go on date, talk to your dad and have a comprise with him, if he still won't allow you...respect his wishes. There's always time for everything...so enjoy your family for now.
2007-03-08 13:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by shekinahjireh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you first start dating, it feels like a new adventure. so it may look appealing to maybe go against daddy's wishes and sneak around. but trust me, thats not the way to go. getting caught is too risky and can quickly turn things into a nightmare. not to mention that your dad will not trust you and the dating deadline can and will be pushed farther into the future. your best bet is to prove to your dad that you are mature enough to start experiencing the dating scene. sit down with him and calmly explain to him that you understand the he is just trying to protect you, but that you would like the opportunity to prove to him that you can handle dating. tell him that you want him to meet the guy. (if the guy has good intentions he will be ok with this) and since you sound fairly young you might want to let your guy know that your not trying to make things move too fast, your just trying to let your dad date him. try to act as mature as posible, be obedient, and dont act like a spoiled kid even if you think your dad is being unreasonable. remember that since i dont know your dad i cant tell you exactly how long it will take for him to let you go out, but if you play your cards right, you can bet that it wont take too long.
2007-03-08 13:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asked you out on a date? Or asked you to be his gf? Because.. people don't consider "asked me out" as a date anymore.. It's asking to be a gf.. At least it is where I'm from. Well, talk it over with your dad. Or let him meet the guy.
2007-03-08 13:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your dad that you like this boy and he asked you out, and you would really like to go out with him but you dont want to break your rules. suggest the boy coming over for dinner or something so your dad can approve of him. you have to compromise. i did this with my dad and now im allowed to date as long as he approves :]
2007-03-08 13:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Emilyy<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince your dad that you are young, and that this is the time that you should be experimenting with dating. It also helps that you acknowledge to him that you now the effect that sex can have on a person, and that you aren't ready to make such a decision. Usually if you make a jump like that, it will make them more comfortable and willing to let you date.
I hope this helps.
2007-03-08 13:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell the truth: My dad doesnt allow me to date. bettyk
2007-03-08 13:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by elisayn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋