I have a 16 month old little boy who I love more than anything in this world but would love nothing more than to be able to give him a sibling. We have been trying for a few months now with no luck so we have decided to take a bit of a break, It is so hard for me during this break because I miss being pregnant, I miss holding a newborn I miss it all really and I can't get babies off of my mind. How can I get this baby fever to subside for a bit until we are ready to start trying again.
2007-03-08 13:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I think you are soo stressed out obsessing over falling pregnant that it is stopping you achiving this. Just say to yourself the more stress I'm under thinking about a baby that it is stopping me from falling pregnant. Close your eyes Take a deep breath and think of palm trees in the caribbean or some where exotic that you like everytime you think about a baby, I know it may sound corny but really it will help you felax and take your mind off it. then when you least expect it you will fall pregnant. Just remember that if you are meant to fall pregnant then there is a baby waiting for you. If just has to be the right time. Good luck.
2007-03-08 13:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just relax and enjoy your 16 month old. He is still a baby! Trust me I have 10 year olds, he is a baby. The time goes by so fast give him some special time with you when you are trying because when a new baby comes along he wont have as much of your attention and he really needs it. In my opinion about 3 years apart is ideal to give a child special time with parents but it is a personal decision. Good luck getting pregnant.
2007-03-08 13:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been having baby fever for a yr now, and settled down about a month then picked up again, I don't have a child yet, I'm 19, and my boyfriend says wait until I'm out of college, and I agree we need to be financially stable, and it's heartbreaking that I am always caring for others children which are little miracles, but I don't have my own yet, and my boyfriend doesn't understand that, I know I could make it work though, but he says not yet, and it kills me inside, for a yr or more now. Atleast you have 1 right now. I keep trickin myself that I'm pregnant, because I think about it sooooo much, and am always bothering my boyfriend but not trying to, sometimes I even cry about it. My mom had many miscarriages which made me miss out in the younger yrs of holding them babies, and many other reasons I just want some soo bad right now! Plus I'm going to be a neonatal nurse w/ the newborn babies in the hospital when I get out of college, I relieve believe they are miracles, I wish you luck though, try not stressing and it'll happen!
2007-03-08 13:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Help me too....lol. My babies will be two and three next month. I have asked this question before and keep getting told it never goes away. Just keep reassuring yourself that you will have another baby. I have another 3 years before I can start trying again. For now the only thing that seems to work is spending time with my cousin's newborn. She may not be mine, but she sure is precious.
2007-03-08 13:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you stop trying? Just keep it going till you get pregnant.
2007-03-08 13:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋