she has been a realy close friend of mine for two years. i have asked her out b4, but now our relationship is the closest its ever been. i mentioned to her that i would like to try bf/gf after she just broke up with her bf of 1 year. should i try to comfort her, or should i just go all out and go for her...win her over. she said she was going to think about it, but idk what to do. also should i call her or just IM for now. LOOK IM REALY DESPREATE AND I NEED ALL THE HELP I CAN GET....AND IF ANY1 CARES ENOUGH TO HELP ME TALK TO ME ON YAHOO IM AT DUKEBROTHAFOSHO. OR ON BEBO AT http://ItalianStallionBRAD.bebo.com OR MYSPACE AT http://www.myspace.com/bradwillwinyourheart
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2007-03-08 13:14:49 · 11 answers · asked by dukebrothafosho 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait about 3 months, then ask her.
2007-03-15 02:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for now just comfort her because thats what she needs most rite now. she needs u as a good friend rite now try to think about her first then see if yall can make something later. go ahead and call her tho but dont be pushy or make it seem like your tryin to get at her again. calm down for now and just be da friend u are.
also u mite not be ready for a relationship with her yet. you mite think so but give her sometime to figure herself out first.
2007-03-16 14:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by swag225 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you go for it as soon as possible. Why ? You need to avoid the friend trap. Meaning the longer you are friends the more difficult or imposible is it having bf/gf relationship.
2007-03-16 14:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally wait! Don't catch her on the rebound of you actually want to have a relationship with her and make it last. Let her get over this one first...good luck!
2007-03-16 06:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ridiculous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time but stick close by. after a few months when is over him go for the kill.
2007-03-16 06:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I IM you but I guess you weren't there so just IM me later and I will give you some advice. OK Talk to you later I guess!
or e-mail me at cbludaisy@yahoo.com
2007-03-16 12:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by cbludaisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a while, give her sometime to get over it then ask her
2007-03-08 13:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by Princess of Torture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should give her some time to get over her recent break-up. Good luck.
2007-03-16 11:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by mysterious girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET AFTER IT, comfort her and show pity, but let her know under NO uncertain terms that you're getting next to her.
2007-03-16 14:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definetly need to give her more time, and when she looks like she feels ready ask her.
2007-03-16 14:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by You 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋