2007-03-08 13:14:14 · 17 answers · asked by SWAY-ANNE R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It'll all make sense when you're older.
2007-03-08 13:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ericka P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way when I was 14. I loved the idea of having a boyfriend, but didn't really care about dating. Honestly, at 14, dating isn't really dating. Go ahead, be friends with as many people as you want to, hang out with everyone, get to know them better. Don't date unless you know that you are ready for this.
One of my high school teachers took a day from class and had us make a list of qualities you want in a husband in the future. If you do this and only date guys that possess some of those qualities, then you'll cut back on meaningless relationships and be the better for it (I've experienced a lot less heartache than others I know).
Good luck!
2007-03-08 21:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand where you're coming from. I was the same exact way and I still am for the most part. It's just one of those things that will happen when the timing is right. I'd much rather have one or two really good bfs during high school than to have a million which each last like a week haha
2007-03-08 21:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have so much time to experiment in the world of guys - don't worry about it right now. I don't see a question here but I'm guessing you are asking if this is weird? It's totally not. I felt the same way. Wait a year or two and probably your view will change a little bit. Right now focus on what you find most important - whether it's school, an activity, friends, and family.
2007-03-08 21:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way! Everyone around me is with someone and Iam not and i feel like i need a bf but u really dont! you will have plenty of time to meet other people.
2007-03-08 21:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then find a guy that doesnt think dating is a big deal, but still would like to date you, and go out with him. at least you two wouldn't be the type who hug and make out in the grocery store. Of all places....
2007-03-08 21:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a b/f at the age of 14 is a huge emotional commitment
b/f's are not just a piece of fashion or a piece of clothing to have around. guys have feelings too. at the age of 14 you should be discovering yourself first before causing yourself complexed problems both emotionally for yourself and with others.
2007-03-08 21:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's too young to date. Go out as a group instead of individual dating and stop trying to rush growing up.
2007-03-08 21:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you saying you dont want to have a boyfriend or you want to have one i'm not quite sure wht you are trying to say. if you are saying you want a boyfriend go for it and if you are saying you think you are too young well maybe you are and you arent ready yet you have a lot of time before you should start dating ... im not sure wht your question was....
2007-03-08 21:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by Marya L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, you're young, meet people, have fun and dont get tied down, but if u meet a guy u rele rele like go for it, just dont rush into things
2007-03-08 21:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by vinvan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is kinda how i feel at some times i feel desparate and at others idk care i feel like who needs a man... i think the reason i want love so bad is bcas we see it in the movies and with other people and we are like "i want that" but seriously most girls are really preocupied and its not like were gonna marry the dude
2007-03-08 21:18:36 · answer #11 · answered by living the life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋