I'm in love with my best friend and I told her. She either doesnt love me back or doesn't believe me. I really want to be her friend but it's hard for me to ignore my feelings for her when i'm with her. I rarely ever see her and we only communicate with e-mail. And when I do see her, I always hug her and hold her tight. I kiss her on the cheek and neck and one time we kissed on the lips really softly but it just happened for 2 seconds. I've told her many times, in detail that I love her in e-mails. I even tell her after I kiss her and she says "do you mean that?" I tell her yes!!!! I love this girl with all of my heart but I dont want to hurt myself when I'm with her. I can't pretend I dont love her. What should I do? I want to be her friend but its hard because I have intense feelings for her.
2007-03-08 13:14:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think that the same is happening to me, my friend feels the same for me and I feel a lot for him too. But the problem for me is that I don't really believe in love because I haven't seen that and I haven't seen a good thing to come out from LOVE.
If you two kissed then she feels something for you and as you said I think that she doesn't want to believe in the simple word you say, tell her what do you feel, love is a big word but maybe she needs to know what do you think about her, your feelings.
2007-03-08 13:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by mel1719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a true hearted guy. if you tell her you love her all the time, then why doesnt she believe you? most guys would be too caught up in sports to even say i love you. people who love one another can still be best friends. Just try to teach yourself self-control, just a little, and then you two can be friends/in love. since you two already established the bestfriends part, it shouldnt be that hard. the only part is, if you two break up (if you became a coulple), then your friendship will NEVER be the same again. good luck.
2007-03-08 21:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, i know it's hard, and its gonna sound like it sucks, but try to lay off a little, i did the same thing recently to my gf, and well, she dumped me for being to "clingy" so just watch yourself, and maybe lay off a lilttle.
2007-03-08 21:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by freedkid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray, and then work out your physical energy with sports, or lifting weigths, you are a guy -right? concentrate on you for right now.
2007-03-08 21:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋