I have a 'unique' relationship with my fiance. I allow him to 'cheat' as much as he wants, and do whatever 'sexual' activity he wants with other girls. My friends all say that since we're engaged, I shouldn't allow this anymore. But we've had our relationship the same way since we first started dating, almost two years ago. I feel that, if he's going to cheat, a) I'd rather know about it, and b) As long as I'm the girl he's socially with, what's the big deal? Am I the only girl who feels this way, or has this type of relationship?
2007-03-08 13:08:34 · 4 answers · asked by xletxmexgox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I would say that you do have a very "unique" relationshipl And yes, you are probably the only girl who feels this way.
2007-03-08 13:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are engaged in what is known as an "Open relationship" My guess is that you either A) Have extremely low self esteem and think you have to put up with this cheating bastard in order to be with him, or B) You have a very high self esteem, and don't believe in monogamous relationships, or finally, C) You are a closet bi-sexual that secretly wants to share your boyfriend with other girls that you are also attracted to. It is up to you to decide which catagory you fall under. In any event, good luck, drink milk, wear a seatbelt and for GOD SAKES....USE A CONDOM!!!!
2007-03-08 21:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so does that mean you get to "cheat" with anyone you want? Fair is fair. Also are you gonna do this for the rest of your life because i don't think because you marry it will change. I hope you have him get monthly STD testing and wear a condom every time he has sex with you because if he is sleeping around who knows what he will bring home. Ewww
2007-03-08 21:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy?
2007-03-08 21:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dusty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋