you know its reall hard for me to cope up with my situation..
me & my bestfriend had same situation,we want to rebel but it seems that we think with our future we need to finish our studies coz if not we will suffer in future..they want to control our life if you know what i mean.......so please do help us to cover up things right tnx for your time to read this
2007-03-08 13:05:15 · 10 answers · asked by mehj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dealing with that situation is very hard. I mean, whenever our parents would dictate what we should and shouldn't do.. like in your words.. they want to control your life.. Rebelling might be the answer but not for now.. You should consider first what will be the outcome if you and your friend rebel. Isn't it wonderful if you first finish your studies and be successful before you rebel.. For that reason, i assure you your stepdad will no longer instruct you.. He will let you go.. he will give you the will to choose decisions or just supports you in everything you do. Ü
2007-03-08 13:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by nikko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I am going to ask you a question? Are you pregnant? If you are, no covering up will do to hide the fact that your are. Eventually everyone will find out. If you are in this situation, you and your best friend will have to owe up to it. Go to your parents and tell them what has happened. Be not afraid. Just be honest and true. All things work out better with honestly.. If you know for sure they cannot handle this well and that things might get physical, then have an adult like a teacher, or a family member be there with you both. You cannot cover up, things always come to the light.
Good Luck..
2007-03-08 21:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing as far as staying in school and following the rules there will be time to rebel after you move out of your parents house>
2007-03-08 21:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so it is hard to really get what u mean because it seems you are holding back i always had problems with my stepdad as a kid too but we just grew out of it parents will try to control your life that is was they are there for it is good u have a friend you can talk to one day u will look back on this as not that much of a big deal
2007-03-08 21:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have given you shelter, love, guidance enabling you to further your studies. As long as you are under their roof parents feel you still need their guidance. Soon enough you will have the freedom that will give you total control over your life. I am sure you need some of their help still. Patience. You are lucky you have good parents that help you to help yourself to have a better life.
2007-03-08 21:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure if you like living with your step father but if so its a roof over your your head so if you give respect to him you will end up getting more time to roan and enjoy life, i believe staying at school would be best, don't rush to start paying bills coz trust me its no fun just enjoy enjoy enjoy you will have plenty time to do just what you want
good luck with it all
2007-03-08 21:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by maisyn3m ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take what you have and make the best of it.
finish school and go onto college.
make something of yourself.
rebelling can sometimes end with a bad outcome.
enjoy being young, but don't be stupid about it.
good luck
2007-03-08 21:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by baby_thumper_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i lived in my parents house, I've had to obey their rule. wasn't easy, but, I've made efforts, until i got on my own.....than i lived by my own rules, 'till i got married......the rest is history............
2007-03-08 21:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you gotta do
2007-03-08 21:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by filaha1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is too vague. Please give more information.
2007-03-08 21:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by sandilp72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋