hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i found out what her name is it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please
i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.
ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please
i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels
please help
2007-03-08 13:03:25 · 5 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun im a woman myself and I know your not going to like this answer much but its the best advice anyone could give you just be yourself. No girl wants a fake. She probably is just as nervous as you so just be yourself. Ask her questions about school and what she likes to do for fun. Once you start talking to her believe me things will come easily. So next time you see her take a deep breath and just be yourself. Everything will work out fine.
2007-03-08 13:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's easier if you go to school together and you can hang out, but if thats not a possibility ( in your case ) you could ask her if she wanted to play on some day or something whatever you ppl do and don't make her feel uncomfortable tell her your inviting friends and she can invite some to and liek maybe go to park or have a mom drive you to movies you can't just straight out ask her. By the way do you know if she's hanging out with someone already like that she likes at her school.
2007-03-08 21:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by «Juke» 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first try to calm down. When you see her go and say "Hi, my name is ....", that's a good way to start. She will answer you, then ask her what is she doing, when she finishes tell here what are you doing. When you see her you are probably going somewhere or going to do something right? you have to tell her about that. Just start a conversation and everything will go fine. After that, when you are going to say bye TELL her "it was a pleasure to meet you, I hope I'll see you again, Bye bye" that is very nice, so you gotta tell her.
Next time you see her say "hi, how are you?" and if she answers the conversation will come out by itself.
Good luck my friend, = )
Trust on you
2007-03-08 21:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by mel1719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo honestly ur better off just being urself because when u act different around girls people like ur best friends start to notice and it becomes very uncomfortable. Just start talking about somthing that ur interested in and see if the conversation follows thro. The one thing i do no (im 15 btw
) is that if a girl likes you it doesnt matter what you talk about because theyre just happy enough that ur talking to them.
2007-03-08 21:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by metsfan91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you honestly dont know what to say now, maybe you arent ready for a girlfriend yet.
2007-03-08 21:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋