2007-03-08 12:57:51 · 23 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hands off girl. He's married. Let it go.
2007-03-08 12:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by princesspie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Run in the other direction! Usually men who are married will use you only for the sex, not the emotion aspect. If you know the person he's married to, how could you ever look her in the face, knowing that you had been with her husband. Find your own men, not married ones.
By the way: If he's 19 years older than you, most likely you will only be used strictly for sex. The maturity levels you are both on are at different stages in your life.
2007-03-08 21:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jeannie1967 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, he's married and belongs to another woman. The age difference is also a problem, as he gets older you will just be coming into your prime (I'm assuming that you are in your teens). If he has kids, then messing around with him will only cause a lot of pain for all involved. Look elsewhere for romance!
2007-03-08 21:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a rule as a single woman---married men are off limits for anything than the husband of my friend. So, you like this guy, 10 yrs. older than you. He's already married! Stay away from him. He is off limits to you!
2007-03-08 21:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always tell him how you feel. Maybe he'll feel the same and you can begin a cycle of waiting for him to call, not being able to call him, not being able to see him when you want, being alone on holidays because he's with his family, crying a lot, feeling lonely, sneaking around to cheap motels, being used for sex, being afraid to be found out, getting blown off when you make rare plans to see him because his family is his priority, having your heart broken, maybe getting beat up by his wife if she found out, oh and not to mention being with a jerk because he is obviously a loser if he's married and would date someone else. Wow, doesn't sound like fun to me. How about you?
2007-03-08 21:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's MARRIED. It will NEVER go ANYWHERE. He won't leave his wife for you, and if you find yourself so UNfortunate that he does, he will leave you, too. He will. Why? Because once he does it, he realizes how easy it is to walk away. And the day your relationship isn't roses and peaches? Away he goes. If he's done anything with you, make sure you tell his wife. I don't know ANY woman in the world who wouldn't want to know, so please, be good, there are single guys out there.
2007-03-08 21:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're soul mate is waiting for you. Go find him! Don't waste your precious time with someone thats 19 years older than AND already settled.
2007-03-08 21:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Wren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age isn't really a issue, but marriage is. Let's say you do end up with him. Who is to say that he wouldn't marry you, and then cheat on you with someone else. Find someone who is available because you can't have a good relationship with someone who would cheat to be with you. Besides, do you really want to be a home-wrecker?
2007-03-08 21:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by cheri s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better leave that situation alone. first of all thats a big age difference, second he's married and u dont want to break up a marriage karma is a b****, and third u dont want to get ur heart broken.
2007-03-08 21:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by jasany316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either tell him how you feel, wait for him to leave his wife, and then begin dating or ignore your feelings and find somebody else. If he tries to have sex with you while married RUN, don't walk RUN away.
2007-03-08 21:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋