There is this girl I really like. We have been dating for about a month now. We see each other 3 times a week. She is really a sweetheart. I want to tell her how I feel about her. Is this ok to tell someone how you feel after a month? What is the best words to tell someone you care?
2007-03-08 12:44:41 · 15 answers · asked by j j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband and I only new each other for a week when he told me he loved me and we were only together for 2 weeks when he asked me to marry him. I knew by the second day that he was it for me. I was 27 and he was 30, so it wasn't like we didn't know what love was, we had both been married and divorced. We have now been married for almost 5 years and have an amazing relationship! I would just tell her that you have really strong feelings for her and that you look forward to seeing what the future holds for the two of you.
2007-03-08 12:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by EllD75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever have your *** hole licked by a fat man in an overcoat? That will break the ice, just kidding dont say that, just thought it was funny. There is no time limit on the way you feel, she just might not feel the same way yet, make sure to tell her that you never want to change what you have now, but that you would like to have a relationship with her. If she doesnt give you an answer right away, dont worry about it, it doesnt mean no, it just means she wasnt ready and she actually wants to think about how it will effect your friendship.
If she says no, say thats cool, its actually a relief to know how you feel about me. Make sure that you are still dating though, if she wont date you just because you want a relationship, the she is obviously wrong for you anyways. If she says yes, then sweet, good for you and congrats.
If she wants to think about it, dont ever bring it up again, dont bother her at all, give her the space she needs to think. Tell her you will give her space and when she is ready to call you. Good luck, oh and dont wait for a date, hell do it right now. Call her and see if she wants to drive around or hang out, but do it tonight, dont wait, its the worst thing you can do.
2007-03-08 20:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by David K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go ahead and tell her, maybe something like, we've been going out for a month now and I just wanted to say, I really care about you. I don't know if I would throw the "L" word out just yet, go for it!! Good Luck!!
2007-03-08 20:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Tell her. But tell in a "small" way. Don't smother her, or force her to respond. And don't freak out if she doesn't respond that she loves you back. She may be liking you, but her feelings may be moving at a slower pace. The best way is to any relationship is honesty.
2007-03-08 20:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the girl and what she is wanting right now in her life. Don't make things too serious too fast. I would tell her how you feel gradually. Another thing to do is just to talk to her about how she feels in this relationship right now and what she is wanting right now as far as relationships go.
2007-03-08 20:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by Hilary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, considering you are dating, I think she would be really flattered if you told her and it is a really good thing. Its fine to tell her how you feel at any point in time. We can't tell you what to say.. only you can know what to say because as cheesy as it sounds it has to be words from YOUR heart.
2007-03-08 20:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you really like her and enjoy being with her. See how she responds to that. But don't go too overboard after a month. It could end up scaring her off.
2007-03-08 20:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to tell her one the second day. The important thing to do is to try to see if she feels the same way. You don't want to jump the gun and end up hurt. Good luck, stud.
2007-03-08 20:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by kdd_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say something like, "I really enjoy spending time with you. I think you're a real sweetheart."
2007-03-08 20:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply say that you are developing feelings for her. It's too soon to say you love her or are falling in love with her. What ever you say, keep it short, sweet, and to the point.
2007-03-08 20:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by sandilp72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋