Ok, I'm 15 years old and dating a 17 year old. I love him and he loves me. But, I think we're moving a little too fast physically. Once I tell him, I know we'll slow down because he's really respectful.
How can I tell him without it being akward?
2007-03-08 12:42:02 · 16 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just explain to him how you feel and how far you wish to go right now. If he really is respectful, then great, he will understand. If hes not, it will quickly show.
By the way it is so nice hearing a woman your age saying something like this. Im not some old guy, Im only 22, but like I always say, the sexiest thing in a woman is class and self respect, you seem to have both. Dont change that, it can never be undone.
2007-03-08 12:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by David K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The good thing is you have a BF that's understanding. First ask tell him that you need to talk about somethings. Once you are sitting with him. Tell him that you love him and enjoy every minute that you spend with him. Tell him that the relationship is going good (hopefully)lol. But you think yall need to slow down physically. That your young and you think its a little to fast for you. If doesn't understand that then he's not for you.
Good Luck
2007-03-08 12:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by [[*m_latrel_s*]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy. Just say "I think we're moving a little too fast physically. I know you'll slow down because you're really respectful."
2007-03-08 12:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah you can definitely tell him. It's completely normal for a 15 year old girl to want to go a bit slower, and he probably expects that anyways. And it's alot less awkward than doing something you don't feel comfortable with would be!
2007-03-08 12:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when you're not doing something physical. I.E. You're walking somewhere (or something like that), so you say, "(insert term of endearment), I think we're moving kinda fast... would you mind if we slowed it down just a little?"
2007-03-08 12:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by xletxmexgox 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just like you told me. Say that you want to slow it down next time that you start to get to physical.
2007-03-08 12:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Vince R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not mature enough to know how to tell him that you want to slow down then you are not mature enough to be in a relationship in the first place!
2007-03-08 12:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by EllD75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell him your not ready for that type of relationship yet. If he respects you he should understand.
Dont ever let a guy take advantage of you or force your into something your not ready for. It's not fun. I know
2007-03-08 12:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it wont be.just tell what you told here.that u feel that u are moving too fast and u wish you could slow down things a little, because u r not ready yet
2007-03-08 12:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
6 Months and your already saying " I Love You " ?
That is really quick. Slow things down or it will end.
2007-03-08 12:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tidus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋