Ladies Anwser This?

Question

I just started working as a male stripper at chippendales and I have noticed that the ladies get to feel on us and do a lot more than the guys get to do at a strip club where the ladies take it off.I just want to know why is it that way,that you ladies can get wild and get away with a lot more stuff then men can and I am not mad I am just curious.

Answer 1

I like all the answers above me so I will add to what they are saying with men that attend strip joints are normally happy with the visual appeal, if not they normally buy lapdances ect.
one reason that men don't take advantage is they know that big ugly bouncer in the corner will throw them as far as they can.
With women we are not ok just with site in fact normally we are not aroused by sight as we are with touch and attention.
also girls especially with friends want to get the most attention from you. Its away to feel pretty desirable.... they are using these "flirt" dates to fill in a need for attention, touch ect.
they would rather feel they could take you home if they wanted then to feel that they are just there to watch.

hope this helps

Answer 2

It's one thing to be up on stage, taking off your clothes, but women have a certain line they do not like crossed. Some have a larger boundary than others, but the whole idea of women being an object to men, which has been around forever, and women have not always been able to express themselves towards men, and never will completely be able to put a man in a place men often do women. Men can take things too far. If a woman does it to a man, its 'yeah alright', but a man to a woman, just think about how often that happens. Women will never get the respect that men do. We think differently and act differently in many circumstances. It is hard to explain, but 'men are from mars, women are from venus' get it?

Answer 3

I went to male strippers once hated it but I believe women get more Wild because they go to strippers less so when they get the oppotunity they take full advantage of it I mean there are alot more strip clubs for men than women

good luck with your career choice :)

Answer 4

Because no woman has ever left a strip club, waited outside in the parking lot, and beaten and raped a male dancer on the way to his car.

Women are crass, and loud and touchy feely at strip bars. But they're harmless. There is no chance of sexual violence. Also, the chance for prostitution is much lower, so it's isn't something the law needs to be involved in, the way it is at female strip clubs.

Answer 5

because Lady's are not aggressive as some males and commit to it, males like to be touched isn't that what brings you the money as a stripper and more guest to the club?

Answer 6

I'm a women who has wondered this too. I can't stand going to the male strippers and seeing the women behave like lunatics.

Answer 7

Well in my view girls look for guys to be wild, and couragous, and outgoing, but they have to be well bounded, and can't go out there, and like go to strip clubs all the time, and stuff like that, and girls are more kept to them selves so unless you were with them or saw them doing it you wouldent believe and she would regret everything but instead you guys like to brag about it

Answer 8

I would have thought this one to be self explanatory! Men don't care about getting touched...they like it...the females may feel uneasy about a stranger actually touching her...even though she is taking off all of her clothes in front of him. Besides, men are greasy and sweaty...lol

Answer 9

because you men become animals. too much testosterone.