O.K. I was going out with this guy and I really loved him. Then, he asked another girl out that liked him too. I was so mad at him!!! The other girl turned him down, but now I have the weird feeling inside, I still love him! Now hes going out with another girl. I want him back so badly, but I don't want him to hurt me again. I really don't think he's worth all of this, but I'm sure I love him. Some of my friends say "He's a moron that just dates girl's to take advantage of them" But my heart is saying something else. WHAT DO I DO???!!!
2007-03-08 12:39:15 · 18 answers · asked by Peaches 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He keeps e-mailing me and says he still likes me even though he is going out with someone else... Oh I'm so confused!
2007-03-08 12:40:47 · update #1
You are probobly right, I don't really know what love is, but I still am caught between my brain and my heart.
2007-03-08 12:52:02 · update #2
sounds like a jerk who is using u for backup. get rid of him. hes not worth it. i'm sorry to say that i dont think its love. find someone who pays closer attention and cares. good luck.
2007-03-08 12:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no exactly how you feel, you dont no what you want right know but you think you are sure of one thing and that is that you want him... well in your case i no you really love him and feel like he loves you, but he seems like a bad guy if he would even think about asking someone out while he was going out with you.. and your not a moron it is just that love is a really strong thing and it does hurt sometimes big time and i know you really want him back, and if you do take him back and this happens again you could just get hurt worse so maybe your best bet is to just be friends with him either until he matures or find someone else but the decision is totaly up to you
2007-03-08 22:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is e mailing you that is just to keep you on the hook. If he is dating other girls, that is a shitty thing to do to you. Love or no love it is abusive, thoughtless and creul. Drop him like a hot rock. No good can come of this. You will find that you probably are in love with the idea of being in love. Any time you love someone that doesn't love you back is a waste of precious time. Hanging on only keeps you from being available to a guy that would be better suited for you. Move on, it isn't worth the grief. Been there done that.
2007-03-08 20:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude is either a player or just dosn't want to commit to a relationship. He's not worth your time. Better to move on then to find out if he'll break your heart again. If he's bothering you with emails, just tell him to leave ya be until you are OVER him like yesterdays news. Or don't talk to him at all which ever you perfer that makes you comfortable.
Go for a girl's night out with your friends, and have fun, you'll feel better! It always did for me!
And don't worry there's plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-03-08 20:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Victorious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how like you hear, in regards to Alcohol Anonymous people, that the first step is confessing/admittng you have a problem. I think thats what you should do, but instead of saying you have a problem, tell this guy that you love him and that you're not over him and see what he says. There are numerous responses so I can't tell you what to say from there, but that's the best start.
2007-03-08 20:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You maybe too young to understand what is love and from your prespective, you are really having a one-sided love interest. Obviously the boy is willing to make new friends and so should you. Don't let this be your stumbling block to your experience of being in love. Treat it as an experience that you have to learn and improve on later.
2007-03-08 20:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, when people say that they love some1 most of the time they dont and you really really need to think do u really love him but dont say yes imeadiately, and if u do love him then you need to come out and tell him because im a guy and all guys are stupid and we most of the time wont make a move until you give a big hint that u like us or you want us to ask you out so try being more open with him and tell him he hurt you when he did that
2007-03-08 20:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by the j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give the fella 1 more chance so what im saying is go out with him 1 more time than if you see that he really is a jerk than dump him. You dont know if you love someone for sure unless you try and see
GOOD LUCK:D
2007-03-08 20:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by CleoDarling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just keep in your heart but what ever you do like dont come back to him! Ignore boy like that i never had a boy friend but i know about boys! their such fools! oh and if you need any more answers just email me at blondenprety@yahoo.com
2007-03-08 20:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl you do what you want to do but you know what i totally agree with the other people because if he just keeps on dating more and more girls ILL SAY HES A PLAYA and i don't date guys like that but you do what ever you want to do
2007-03-08 20:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Christina D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋