Whenever I tell a secret to someone... My most trustful friend, even, I keep getting thoughts in my head that somehow it will leak and everyone will know, even though she keeps her mouth shut. And everytime I do something I like, I always overdo it and lose track of time. How do I... get myself back on track?
2007-03-08 12:38:53 · 6 answers · asked by Eden 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I tell a lot of secrets to people I think are my friends and all the promises in the world cannot keep it from getting out. If the information is damaging to you, don't tell ANYONE!! Get a diary and write it down to yourself to get it off your chest and your mind. As far as overdoing what you like, it depends on what your'e doing. If you're doing drugs, you need to either get into rehab or remove yourself from any and ALL temptations. If you're talking about going out and drinking or doing things with friends, I suggest (if you have a cell phone, which most people do), set a "wake up call" or "alarm" to ring when you should be ending your fun. Try planning your week 2 or 3 days ahead and stick to your sched as best you can. After a while, planning your schedule will become second nature to you. Good luck
2007-03-08 12:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by teacherwendy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about that? Why would anyone care what anyone else thinks about someone? For me, I love when people talk crap about me, why would I care, I certainly don't need people who have more problems then myself try telling me how I should live my own life.
It's pretty pathetic how some people will sit there and judge before realizing how much worse off they are then the person they're judging. So I guess if it makes people feel all special talking crap about other people, they're no different than 95% of the rest of the population. So who cares? I know I sure don't.
2007-03-08 12:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by y2kguyarea51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to worry your secret leak, there are 2 options 1) keep your secrets secret to every one 2) learn to live with it.
its also normal to lose track of time when you ar doing fun stuff, try using an alarm clock if you need to do something at a certain time.
2007-03-08 12:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Preykill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best secret is one NOT told.
And as for overdoing things, try using a watch or timer. Moderation in all things, after all, is the best way to live.
2007-03-08 12:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you have seen your own faults. My advice, "....Trust in the LORD, lean not to your own understanding, but in all your ways acknowledge him and HE shall direct your path.
2007-03-08 12:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bernard H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um you are obsessed tell your secrets to god he wont tell anybody!
2007-03-08 12:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋