Bachelor Parties?

Question

What is the likelyhood that a soon-to-be husband will cheat during his bachelor party or prior to the wedding? Is there any way that you can convey that you aren't ok with strippers attending and he actually not have them attend?

Answer 1

Well I personally don't understand why people feel it is so necessary to have that one big bang before they get married. The stripper at my husbands bachelor party would do anything for the right amount of money and 14 years later about 50 mens lips are still sealed as to what went on except for 1 man who told his wife exactly what he did with this stripper. I don't know what anyone else did but I still am totally against it whether it is a man or a woman having the party. I believe if you are happy to be getting married and settling down you don't have to have a party like that. Nothing wrong with a few good friends having some drinks and such but I totally am against the stripper thing. Causes trouble even years later as secrets slowly leak.

Answer 2

Seriously the stripper issue should not be that big of a deal. My husband got a stripper and it actually made me feel better. As the stripper was dancing near my husband, his friend's would say things like "you should see his wife, she is gorgeous" and "his wife has a body that looks a lot better than yours" because the strippers that dance for these things are not all that. Don't worry he will not leave his friends to go in the back with a stripper, if anything one of his buddys will do that before he could get the chance too. Just kidding. Trust your man a little more.

Answer 3

Although I've never seen any statistics on this, I'd dare say that very, very few grooms cheat at their bachelor party. Why is it you're not okay with strippers? Do you not trust him? If I were engaged to a man and I didn't trust him enough to get through his bachelor party without hooking up with a stripper, I think I would seriously re-think the whole marriage thing.

Answer 4

My friend had a bachelor party for before his wedding that I did not attend, but from what I heard from him a lot more happened there then just stripping. There was close body contact, touching, and some fooling around. Although he did not have sex with the girls, it was very borderline. Trying to keep my response PG rated, the only thing that didn't happen was any form of penetration, everything else was fair game.

Answer 5

First off you can tell your fiance that you know there will be strippers there and that you love him enough and trust him enough to know that he wont do anything to jeopaodize the wedding/marriage. Most guys dont go sleep with the strippers due to whatever reasons. They love the woman they are about to marry.

I say dont worry about it. He chose you to marry- not the stripper....If the strippers some they come- you just have to pray and trust that your man is faithful to you and wont hurt you.

Answer 6

I want to say that it all comes down to trust. Some people are not into strippers, but it's part of the last fling of being single. You may communicate to your friends that you all don't want strippers but your friends may get them anyway. Has there ever been any infidelity in your relationship, between either of you. I think you should relax and just enjoy the night.

Answer 7

I've been to a few bachelor parties, and if your fiancee cares about you, there should be no problem at all. Us guys watch over the bachelor to make sure he is having a good time, and to make sure he behaves himself.
Bachelor parties are a tradition, and to tell your fiancee that you don't like it would be the same as saying that you don't trust him. If you have mutual friends going, maybe you can ask one to watch over your fiancee and make sure that he doesn't do anything he shouldn't.

Answer 8

you have to decide if you are okay with the whole bachelor party thing or not, strippers or not as well....as for me, I discussed this with my husband, before we got married and there was no bachelor party at all


communicate with him about your feelings and he should communicate with you about his...but be warned that if you agree to the bachelor party get ready to agree to the strip clubs too later on....if your fine with that, then that is between you two but if your not, then you need to deal with it now, not later

Answer 9

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Answer 10

It is called TRUST. We have been married for 30 years this year and neither has cheated. You should really ask yourself why the stripper bothers you so, if it is lack of trust, you are in trouble.