We've been together for 17 months. I'm 20 hes turning 22 in 2 months. I'm afraid to call him cuz I dont know what to expect or want to start anything. He usually calls within 2-3 days when we argue. I hate calling him because sometimes he gets mean and nasty about our problems when I'm trying to help save our relationship. Its really hard to get pass a problem between us. If I get mad at him or he gets mad at me he'll call back and says sorry for making you sad and I made you cry but it lead to no solution. Hes not much of a talker when it comes to these things. I tried being honest with him and how I feel so he can understand me. Is it over? =/ Help help what should I do any advices would be great! My bf also never had a gf and he has a hard time expressing his thoughts and feelings. Btw, whats the longest have you gone not talking to your bf/gf? My bf is stubborn my ex and I couldnt go any longer than 2 days not talking to each other ..
2007-03-08 12:14:41 · 16 answers · asked by lim-k@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now what did you do? Why are you so argumentative? Guys don't like it when girls come at them with a lot of drama. If he is sulking then let him sulk. He'll call you when he's good and ready. If at all. So, go on with your life and stop being such a doormat.
2007-03-08 12:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he wants some time off to do the thinking and then he'll get back to you but you don't have to think it's over be positive about your relationship give him few time if he doesn't get in touch well try to make the first move talk to him as a mature person and explain to him that would like to put things right about your relationship if doesn't willing to find the solution about your problems within your relationship well I'd like to advice you to move on.....
2007-03-08 12:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to save the relationship then call, however, I don't see why you'd want to. The longest I went without talking to my ex fiance was 10 days or close to it. But I haven't gone a day without talking to my husband. We rarely fight but get over the 'mad' quickly.
It sounds like the two of you have compatibility issues. Why not find someone who cares enough to make more of an effort.
2007-03-08 12:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to prove a point by not calling you. Like he doesn't want to be the one to apologize. I'm stubborn like that, I wait for people to call me back. But if you really want to save your relationship, maybe you should call him and ask what's up. Even if it's scary, it's better than not knowing where you guys stand.
2007-03-08 12:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, the longest i have gone without talking to my boyfriend was almost a week and i thought i was going to go crazy :[. but anyways if your boyfriend has a job maybe he has just been really busy with that you know? or you should try calling him to see what's up and how come he hasn't had anytime to pick up the phone to call you.
2007-03-08 12:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Girly♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and try to solve the problem b4 it's 2 late!
2007-03-08 12:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by jennyx3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a great relationship you got going on over there. face it. hes not into you. who doesnt talk things out. he sounds like a baby who cant have what he wants. so now hes hiding and pouting. if thats what you want to put up with they by all means work it out. otherwise dump him.
2007-03-08 12:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's over.
2007-03-08 12:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by front door 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT CALL HIM GIRLFRIEND
HE NEEDS TO GET HIS PRIDE OUT OF THE WAY STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND BE A MAN
SOUNDS KINDA CHILISH TO ME THAT A GROWN MAN CAN HAVE A FIGHT WITH A GROWN WOMAN AND NOT CALL HER FOR DAYS?
2007-03-08 12:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a new day! move on with your young life ...time passes so quickly and takes so-o-o-o much more energy to be miserable than to be happy...try to find someone who is not so intense...
2007-03-08 12:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by Pooks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋