OK, so there's this girl at my school, her names Abby and shes really cute and smart(unlike most of the other popular girls). I sit next to her in a couple of classes and sometimes talk to her. I really like her, but I'm not sure if she likes me. I'm kind of afraid to ask her out, because I'm not sure if she likes me and I'm afraid of rejection :(. I'd like to get to know her and see if she has any attraction to me. I don't want to be too Out There, I want to drop some subtle hints but I don't want her to get weirded out. Any suggestions?
2007-03-08 11:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by Hayden 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, you're dealing with a touchy situation here, man. I know the feeling. I never dated any women in my class because I didn't want to have to put up with them in Study Hall if I banged em the night before. That was just always my rule. But I think you should go after it man no matter if it make a fool out of you or not. I know this for sure, when you get out of school, you'll be sitting home all alone one night and you'll be thinking, "Damn, I would've asked that woman out!".
I would suggest making it a point to get closer to her first to kind of check her out. Like sitting near her in class or being somewhere near her when nobody else is talking to her. Don't ask her if she just wants to "hang out" some time because you want to start this out on a purely sexual level so she won't get bored with you or treat you like a guy friend. Dress up sometime and look as dashing as you possibly can and pop her the question when you are alone with her. Tell her that she's been on your mind for a long time and you couldn't hold back from wanting to get to know her on a ramantic level.
Good Luck!
2007-03-08 12:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well from a girls point of view i think that you should spend time getting to know her. Kinda flirt around with her a bit. Drop hints. If she likes you back, she might start to show it. But don't stress if she doesn't just keep giving hints. And then drop the bomb, ask her out. But don't be too quick , don't rush, and most importantly stay clam and cool.
GOOD LUCK :)
2007-03-08 11:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Courtsizzle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just carry on a casual conversation with her and she what she likes and maybe that will hint to her that you are interested in her and want to get to know her better!! If she likes you then she will answer in a giggly, flirty voice and she will wanna talk and get to know you more as well!! Maybe you could have one of your friends ask her if she thinks your cute or if she is attracted to you!! That might get you and llitte reference on what she likes! Good Luck!!!!
2007-03-08 11:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by luh luh la reee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could approach her to study fo a test thats coming up and see from there if shes smart she could be a big help and you could talk and get to know each other and by the end of the study time you will know if she likes you or not
2007-03-08 11:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her a little bit.. see if she wants to hang out, maybe go to the movies as a kind of casual thing and then work your way up.. and there's no reason to be afraid of rejection! feel comfortable with yourself, there are plenty of girls out there! good luck! : )
2007-03-08 11:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sami J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really want to get to know her just keep talking to her like you are but flirt with her a little. let her know she looks nice that day or say something to make her laugh and if she flirts back then try to flirt a little more and more with her, or even try and ask her if she would want to hang out sometime after school.
2007-03-08 11:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in that place for i like a boy and he is very popular and i am not as much and we r both afraid to say something about it cause i am embarrassed about it!!!! but i think u should talk to her when she isnt with her friends or isnt distracted by someone else then u can talk about stuff!!!! if u flirt with her and she dosnt reject it then she might like u and if she smiles or looks at u a lot then she must like u!!!!! remember u cant force someone to like u!!!!!
2007-03-08 11:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by alexsoccer27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1. Start becoming friends with her!
Step 2. Wait, don't rush
Step 3. When you think your friendship is firm POP the question
2007-03-08 11:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by mebh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, with this one...go for it. Stop wondering and just ask her out. Do not be scared of rejection. Confidence is sexy!! Be proud of taking a chance. If she says no...move on.
2007-03-08 11:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Aron H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man just ask her out like this
are you free this weekend i was wondering if you would like to go see a movie with me
she might say why you say to get to know you better
when you ask her this look her straight in the eyes and look sincere if she says no just say ok its cool or ok
if she says yes congrats you just passed the first phase
2007-03-08 11:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by usmc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋