ok so i told the girl that i like that i liked her and she said no u dont and walked away smiling i think becuz she didnt know how to handle it. than she gave her number to her friend to give to me and wants me to call her after 8 i have no idea what to say. we were friend b4 and she had no idea i liked her alot how do i start the conversation
2007-03-08 11:44:49 · 19 answers · asked by oliver k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so i told the girl that i like that i liked her and she said no u dont and walked away smiling i think becuz she didnt know how to handle it. than she gave her number to her friend to give to me and wants me to call her after 8 because thats when shell have minutes on her phone i have no idea what to say. we were friend b4 and she had no idea i liked her alot how do i start the conversation o and she also knew i liked her before i told her
2007-03-08 11:57:43 · update #1
You didn't mention how old you & she are so it's not easy to answer but here goes.
The best way from my perspective is to call her & don't delay it a few days...just do it.
Don't think about calling her before you do...you know what I mean...thinking about what you're going to say, that usually makes it more akward. It's best to just call her & be the same guy on the phone she's always been used to.
If she laughs a little it may mean she was suprised to find out that you like her more than a friend. That doesn't mean that she isn't happy to have found out.
When you talk to her just be honest...tell her you would like to take her out and see what she says.
Since you were friends before, you must have an idea of what kind of girl she is & what kind of things she likes to do for fun...so start out asking her if she would like to go out & do one of the things she likes.
If you really like this girl a lot then you've got more to lose by not asking her than just waiting around wondering what she'll think. You might be suprised when you two go out that she liked you too but for whatever reason didn't let on.
Normally I would agree with the poster above that it's best not to call and ask but ask in person instead but she did give you her # so in this case it's not a big deal.
If she likes to do a lot of the talking on the phone then let her talk...she'll feel you're interested when you don't interupt...if she seems shy and or quiet talk about things you know you both share in common then as the conversation goes on a bit you can move onto other things.
I'll add more if you need more advice.
2007-03-08 12:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since im not a guy and i dont have a lot of experience with this it may not be the best answer :) Ok, first of all, if she told her friend to give you her number shes interested. I would call her and ask her what she thought when you expressed your feelings for her. then act natural and start a normal conversation. then you can ask her out :)
2007-03-08 11:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by karate girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like she likes you too. Just talk about school, or other friends, or whatever is going on right now. Just remember to call her after 8, because it would be really rude to just blow her off. Again, tell her you do like her, and are not joking!!! Tell her until she admits she likes you too. God Bless, Martha S.
2007-03-08 11:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off like this " hey, how are you? what's up? add something funny that u can create on your own, tell her how ugly the math teacher is at school and how hard that english test was. just a few examples.
2007-03-08 11:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there can be TONS of ways to answer her. just have a normal approach and talk to her like you would before you told her. nothing has to really change between the two of you, unless you make it awkward. trust me, been there, done that.
the response she made after you told her was probaly because she either :
a. likes you
b. knows you like her.
c. doesn't want to believe its true.
just be yourself. things always work best that way. good luck!
2007-03-08 11:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by CEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could probably skip the "ask her how she feels about you part" since she gave you the number, but, you could just ask her how her day was after you told her. Just small talk, ask her out somewhere aswell.
2007-03-08 11:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by I Know Nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and strike up a normal convo.
act lyk you usually would and dont make a fool of yourself... and PLZ dont ask her out over the phone...thats so chicken...im sorry i would know these things cuz every time a guy would ask me out over the phone i would think that he didnt relly care n stuff...
2007-03-08 11:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by .lovely. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk about common things like school and what she wants to do in the future. Ask her lots and lots of question to figure out what;s she interested in and to see what you guys have in common. If you guys do have something in common, you'll find it much easier to find other things to talk about.
2007-03-08 11:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by PlanJam.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are getting played if a girl asks you to call you at a specific time.
2007-03-08 11:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kenster102.5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like her too. start it by saying "Hello, my name is[insert name] how are you on this beautyfull day/night" then she replys " i am great and how are you my fair sir?" then you say "i am also great my name is lusifur will you take my hand?"
you probably dont get it but its funny, but dont really do any of that stuff i sayd unless you want to get a fever.
2007-03-08 11:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by rocuronium77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋