ok theres this boy that i reallly like and i dont kno if he likes me or not. we hang out sometimes but not alot. he stares at me sometimes in our only class we have together. he lives near me like really close. and a couple of my friends say i sohuld tell him how i feel but i dont wanna make a fool of myself and tell him that cuz i dont wanna mess our friendship up. and what if he says he has no feelings for me. then im going to be a mess.. and im really confussed on what to do.. i wanna tell him but im scared of the way hes gonna react.. so please help me.. i need alot of advice...
2007-03-08 11:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by mee. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heya Darling, i was reading your question and i think that you should tell him how you feel. I understand that you are scared of telling him how you feel but i think that if you don't tell him you will never know!!! And for me personally i dont think i could live a life if i never know.....even if its going to hurt. Because you will know that deep down you did what you thought you needed to do. And whats the worst thing that can happen and is it worse then never knowing. Good luck Matti xx
2007-03-08 11:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it and ask him out. tell him how u feel and c wht he says, hopefuly he will say tht he has the same feelings for u =] but theres a chance he might say no, but ths alright. if hes a good enough friend then he wont act akward around u or anything, hell continue being friends with u like nothing happened. but if he wants 2 b some gay fag and not talk 2 u then let him, he wasnt even good enough for u 2 b ur friend, cuz a true friend will stick with u
2007-03-08 11:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by socc3rmast3rr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stated that your ex advised you that he continues to be in love with you -- yet how do you experience? Why in the international could you be keen to pass lower back with him after 9 months in simple terms because of the fact he happens to assert that he continues to be "in love" with you? in case you have ANY qualms in besides, you could no longer be moving in with him. If he's been an ex for 9 months, you adult males could do particularly some artwork on your relationship till now you even think of approximately moving in with him, exceedingly if he's appearing strange. it is in simple terms self-protection, honey -- who knows why he's appearing the way he's? you do no longer, so which you particular do no longer pick to establish to a situation the place you don't be attentive to each and all the solutions. enable him wait a on a similar time as. what's the hurry?
2016-11-23 16:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this. You like him, he's sending messages. Don't think take a chance it might work it might not work. it's a matter of whether you are willing to give it a go or not. Try sending small messages then build up. if he dosen't say anything then he probably likes you. But if he gets annoyed or says someting STOP. that way you won't ruin anything and you'll have your answer. Just try. Good Luck
2007-03-08 11:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Archie_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only live once, dont leave yourself anything u can regret later, what if he were to get a GF and later you found out he really wanted you but just couldnt wait anymore. Take the risk and go for it, the worst thing that happens is he says no... and the best thing is an amazing relationship, cost benifit analysis says go for it!
2007-03-08 11:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you tell a guy that you like him, and he just wants to stay friends is not going to ruin your relationship.
He may have the same feelings for you, but you'll never know unless you find out.
2007-03-08 11:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by I Know Nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl ur in a deep sitiuation
I say u let him know how u feel I mean u don't want to go your whole life thinkin
"what if"
Do it before it's to late because as time passes you'll regret if he ever says I used to like u!
I wish u the best of lucks.
""""And remember to allways follow your heart!!!!!!!!
2007-03-08 11:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bianca P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he have feelings for you...you are attractive and he loves spending time with you . If you two are friends, you should be able to speak to him about what you feel. Don't second guess yourself.
2007-03-08 11:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask his friends about it...that way instead of him knowing directly form you he gets it from his friends and he may think its a rumor... then you'll know whether or not he does with out being directly affected by it. If you KNOW he likes you, ask him out yourself or tell his freinds to tell him to ask you out.
Good luck
2007-03-08 11:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by neatfreAK47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...sounds like every other girl on earth...umm, try NOT acting like a girl, and tell him how you actually feel.
2007-03-08 11:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋