2007-03-08 11:16:51 · 23 answers · asked by childsilvermoon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I still love him and want to be with him, it's just that I don't... his physical appearance doesn't make me want to jump his bones.
2007-03-08 11:38:06 · update #1
Hey dude, I think your penis is too small and you are getting fat..See ya..
2007-03-08 11:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would do it as kindly as possible. To be told that someone is not physically attracted to you anymore, is a hard thing to take. Instead of using the words, physically attracted. Choose the words "I am just not feeling the chemistry between us anymore" Good Luck
2007-03-08 11:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! you dont, hurting his feelings is rude. do you want him to "change" his appearance? or do you just want to get something off your chest. because if you're just telling him to give him the heads up, he doesnt NEED to know that his gf thinks he's unattractive. however if you think he's "growing" unattractive because he's gaining weight, drinking, not getting sleep...then dont tell him straight up that he's unattractive, just let him know he "looks" different. tell him that he looks tired, stressed, heavier...that sort of thing. finally if you dont think he can change because he looks the same and it's YOU and your desires that have changed, just break up with him and dont mention that you dont find him physically attractive. again, why would you want to hurt him? good luck!
2007-03-08 11:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say, "you know what, I think we should end this relationship but I would still like to be friends if that's ok with you."
Why would you stay in a relationship with someone you're not attracted to?
2007-03-08 11:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him that you think he is good looking, and a great person, but you just don't feel the right chemistry with him and need to move on. Good luck.
2007-03-08 11:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We're breaking up. I've used you as a source of emotional security, and I've enjoyed receiving your attention and all the expensive dates, but I'm not really attracted to you. I think I can do better."
2007-03-08 11:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Chris A 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you fu@ki* love him it shouldn't be an issue. My man is gaining wait and has some problems...but I can't help but love him in which allows me to want him..and be attracted..
2007-03-08 11:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by heidifrybarger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, you lose too much. No one wants to hear that from someone who is in a relationship with them.
How would you like to hear that you are not attractive to him? You would then wonder why he's your b/f
Some things you keep to your self.
2007-03-08 11:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
?? how did he become your boyfriend?? did he change/warp/have a disfiguring accident?? someone might lose their physical appeal for you by hurting you emotionally.
...dig deeper and find a less shallow cause for not being attracted to him. peace
2007-03-08 11:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you even with him then? well it will hurt him but just tell him there is no easy way to tell someone you dont find them attractive!
2007-03-08 11:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by prince14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your bf, you don't tell him something like that.
If you don't want to be with him just tell him you want to move on. If you care about him, don't insult him with that information.
2007-03-08 11:20:04 · answer #11 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋