Do alot of you guys out there have performance anxiety when you hype up a certin night? Like say I text my man all day talking about what I want to do to him, and then comes game time and he fails....says it's because he gets too worked up and thinks about it all day? Guys - is this true? Cause this definetely doesn't happen every time, not even close.
2007-03-08 11:07:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, someone actually wants to get mad about this question cause there is kids on this site....be a parent and don't let your kids go on sites like this! What do kids need to know about "singles and dating" anyways? Pleeeeeeeeease
2007-03-08 11:37:48 · update #1
I supose it can, Just have your favorite toy on hand just incase.
2007-03-08 11:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can stir him up too much with erotic talk, especially if he's young and inexperienced. When you say he fails, do you mean premature ejaculation? If so, it may be that you are too tight, or tighter than he thought. I tight pussy will bring a guy off very fast, especially if you're attractive, and have long legs.
If you mean can't get it up, it's probably that he feels that he'll never keep up with you.
Solution - don't hype him up so much, and let him do some of the work, even if you like being on top. He's a male, and thinks he should be in control
2007-03-08 19:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, most of the time guys get revved up in anticipation, not the opposite. Maybe your guy has anger issues and is holding back for that reason. Maybe your guy thinks that girls are supposed to be modest little creatures, and doesn't know what to think when you're suggesting all kinds of things all day long. It's a protest honey, nothing more. Find somebody, who isn't intimidated by a sexual woman. God Bless, Martha S.
2007-03-08 19:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't...it really depends on the situation and the guy. Even if he goes right away from all the anticipation, make sure you reassure him and give him another chance to make it up to you. The second time around should be much better.
2007-03-08 19:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by PlanJam.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told years ago if you want it to last longer...diversion is the answer....and yes I think it is true that he is overly excited and thats why your having this problem...but don't quit...come on..that is so cool!!! He is getting all worked up over you ALL DAY LONG...how cool!! You go girl! I was told once to bite him when he is about to lose it and it makes him lose his focus so he can go longer...it actually has worked for me before and it can be quite the fun..nice twist to the same ole same ole!
2007-03-08 19:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Godsent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the docs and get a VIAGRA tablet. next time you do tex him all day and he comes home give him a beer and the tablet and hey presto hold on and have the ride of your life for about 6 hours lol
2007-03-08 19:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by luckylovelee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude just needs to pace himself. I'd get all worked up too, but I definitely want to enjoy that time for as long as possible.
2007-03-08 19:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Must be nice, being the one who just has to show up and lay there with spread legs.
2007-03-08 19:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of guys get nervous when women talk about it all the time it gets them to think they have to prove somthin. or u could have got him so horny that when u guys started he could hold it anymore.
2007-03-08 19:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by hotpocket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not for me (and im OLD) ---- if i think about it all week then it happens its even better than the imagination --- he needs to sort out what he is thinking
2007-03-08 19:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋