What do guys want most from a relationship?

Question

What types of things guarantee to make a man happy in a relationship. I want to keep things good and keep him interested for good.

Answer 1

oh, you are so nice. You want to make your man happy. Wait until you've been married for a couple of years and you'll come to realise what a selfish b@stard he really is.
He has to make YOU happy as well, it should be equal.
If he's not interested in you in the first place there is nothing you can do to keep him interested.
Just be yourself and act normal and it's good to be selfish sometimes.

Answer 2

A relationship must grow and move forward constantly otherwise it looses steam, interest and eventually dies. Growth is most important, without it, no matter what u do, cant give results, well there's no guarantee for life and relationships are even more distant in terms of guarantee.

To keep things good, you can try

1. Being a good adviser with a good foresight
2. Caring by Asking how he is and how was his day.
3. Compassionate and correcting respectfully when wrong
4. Understanding, everybody wants to be understood
5. Loving, everybody wants to be love and you guy too

Because a guy eventually needs

1. Sense of belonging, a guy wants to feel that yes there's someone who cares for him. Corrects him when he is wrong, yells at him when he hurt/ignore you, ignores him when he does something he are not supposed to do.

2. In every way a feeling of care, means there's someone who cares for him. When he is in trouble he can count on her, when he is glad he want to first share with her

[ What we put into the system, we get it back, sow good and reap good, he will give you all the love and warmth in return.]

Answer 3

Nothing's gonna be guaranteed unless you're the only person able to do it. Somebody else in the world's always going to be able to be sexier, cook better, etc. If he knows that you like him enough to actually worry about keeping him happy and stuff, then that'll be a big advantage for you, and would keep me interested if I was him.

Answer 4

Hi there

Most nice guys don't want anything special just a little bit of give n take. I prefer a woman to want to share all things equal IE money, house work etc. To be loyal and honest and to be there for me when it hits the fan.

Regular sex is also a winner! sorry I'm only human ;)

Regards

Idai

Answer 5

Good sex, social admiration i.e a nice gal everyone likes or their mates fancy, loyalty and the ability to deal with the attention / advances of all others swiftly, comfort, financial backup when times are crappy, understanding, calm head well screwed on and not argue about petty things.

Answer 6

Cooperation. Good sex. Good food. Right attitude. Peaceful disposition. Consideration for your right to privacy sometimes. A home in order. Respect. Don't "come in for the close-up." A sense of humour. In other words, everything that women want.

Answer 7

Obviously sex but companionship deep down men like to feel wanted just like women. Men also hate women who moan and make issues as all we want is a simple happy life.

Answer 8

This all depends on the man you are going out with. Contary to belief all men are not the same!

Answer 9

In all serious just be close to him while your with him. I love when my girl just lays her head on my shoulder or just lets me hold her. It gives us such a good feeling inside that matches no other.

Answer 10

Give nice things like a "little bear" guys like small things too, even when they say "No, thats for girls" try it! give him a nice and funny post-card not electronic card!