I am only in junior high. I am dating a boy who I really love. Is it wrong to say that I love him? Is it wrong to think that I want to spend the rest of my life with him? I want to be with him. Is there something wrong with me or is it normal?
Please help!
2007-03-08 11:04:40 · 11 answers · asked by smilez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it wrong to say that I love him? depends
Is it wrong to think that I want to spend the rest of my life with him? @ this point,yes
Is there something wrong with me or is it normal? u r normal
u r aloud to say that u love him but not like a spouse loves their spouse...u can love him as friend (hope that makes seance)
And hun, i'm in jounior high too and u don't know who u want to spend the rest of your life w/!!! I felt this way w/ some of my bfs but u got to realize how old u r and that it is just hormones and u wanting to be loved that is telling u that u want to spend the rest of your life w/ him.
REALITY CHECK- When u say DATING, what do u mean???
does he walk u to your classes, do u talk on the phone, hang out on weekends??
That is cute and all and that is ok for our age group but for real that's not dating someone....that is having someone that u like like u back and spending time with him. Are u honest w/ him or do u hide the bad characteristics about yourself??? People hiding the bad things about themselves is what makes relationships fail, including marriages.
HERE IS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO- keep "dating" the guy (I use going "going out w/" ) but remember your age so don't go out and do something stupid like having sex w/ him b/c there will be many more boys.
2007-03-08 11:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lorraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, but young people are definetly capable of loving someone, if just may not be to the same degree as you do when you are older. You can want to be with him and all that, but the rest of your life is a long time, you have to make sure hes the right person to spend it with. A big part of love is also letting go, and learning to love again, dating the same person forever and never trying someone else most of the time isnt the answer. Enjoy it while it lasts, but please remember, forever is a long time!
2007-03-08 19:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will tell you its wrong. But I dont think it is. Im somehwere in my teens also and I have a boy that I feel the same way about. Unfortunately were not dating yet but I have friends that are dating and some even refer to their boyfriends/girlfriends as their husbands and wifes. So no I dont think its wrong... as long as you know you really feel that way about him go ahead and say "I love you" it will only bring you two closer =]
2007-03-08 19:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i remember junior high is Middle school right? been quite a few years. i don't think its weird that you think that way. when your that young you do..its part of growing up.
just take your time with it. you May end up spending your life together, who knows. personally i doubt it, simply b/c you have lots of years to go. kids change their mind very easily. they get bored and want a change. this could happen to either of you or both. , especially that you guys are still in school and hormones are raging. so, have your feelings but just be careful not too take it too far
2007-03-08 19:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by peachs8202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so am i.
i think that it isn't
as long as u don't do something you'll regret sooner or later
but if u love someone u love them
nothing should mess that up.
no matter what anyone says
its not wrong
its how YOU feel
not about what other people think about that
its the same with me
i love my b/f, would do anything for him
and if anyone has a problem with it
hey, thats them!
nothing is wrong with that so don't worry about it.
hope this helped.
_x3
2007-03-08 19:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Whoa. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with that just take it slow and dont rush things who knows you might find someone better ur only in junior high!
2007-03-08 19:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by lykexwhoax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for Jr. high kids to do that. its all good. but i dont no if he feels the same way about u. so u never no if the relation will last forev. but if u no he <3s u go ahead and say u <3 him.
2007-03-08 19:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by angltweet3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow yourself to mature before making such a big decision. The word LOVE is far too overused.
2007-03-11 20:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not in junior high, but i think you think too much. go read some books or learn a computer program
2007-03-08 19:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by hairy pouter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal. when you fall for someone you always feel like that. that is if you really think you love him.
2007-03-08 19:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Lilian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋