i love her but she dosent love me....she dumped me in november and i cant stop thinking about her. i wish she could give me a chance. she means everything to me. she cant acsept me as a boyfriend. she used to say she wants to be my friend but decided im not even worth bein her friend. no one can take me seriousley and i hope u guys can tell me some thing youseful. her birthday is april 6 and i was wonderin if i should get her some thing. i hope i can turn it around before it gets ugly.
thanks
2007-03-08 10:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by spike_lewis007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey sweety, move on darling nothing is worse than chasing after someone who clearly doesnt want you, you will only be hurting yourself more and no do not get her anything for her birthday....... Im quite sure you deserve much better and she just wasnt the one for you, there is always someone out ther for everyone so maybe your dream girl is close by and waiting for you........ dont cry over this one anymore get up be strong and move forward...life is too short .
2007-03-08 11:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you´ll be really amazed but I´ve been in the same situation you´re right now, I had a bf, he dumped me in november, he said he needed me just as a friend, I was happy ´cause I could at least still see him, but he hasn´t talked to me during all this time, it hurts so bad. But I learned something, sometimes eventhough it´s really painful we have to let people go, you sound like a great guy, if she´s the one for you, she´ll be back to you. Give her some time to think about what she wants and not contact her for a while, painful I know, if you keep talking to her right now you´re just hurting yourself. And eventhough it seems hard to believe this right now you`ll be great :)
2007-03-08 19:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by smiley_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Spike - I do not know how old you are but I bet you are really young, meaning there is plenty of time and a great big load of other fish in the sea.
I am sorry this has happened but you need to respect her. If you love something let it go.
Sorry, I know you do not want to hear this but I just don't think she is that into you. Let her go and get yourself out and find someone else. No point wasting your time and money on someone who doesn't want it.
2007-03-08 19:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by fijibabie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spike, that's why they call it "heartbreak". I'm 51, I've been down that road. I have 2 stories to share with you from my life that might help. I was in love with this beautiful, tall, Indian woman when I was in my early 20s. She broke my heart so bad I thought I would die. I met her a few years later, and said to myself, "What was I thinking!!? MAN, I'm glad I did'nt end up with HER!" Another time was more recent. I fell in love with this woman after my separation, and for YEARS, all I wanted to do was marry her and spend the rest of my life with her. It was crazy, but no matter what I did, it seemed that something would stop it. I had to face that it wasnt meant to be. I dont know where you stand as far as faith goes, but I believe that God will guide our choices properly if we trust him. Sometimes even if we dont acknowledge Him, he does. I can think of other times too, when things didnt go the way I wanted them to with women. I wont lie to you and say it happened EVERY time-but MOST of the time, after clearing my head and letting enough time pass, I'd be glad that it didnt!
2007-03-08 19:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to forget about her, the reason she ended ur friendship is because she knows that will just mean that you think you still have a chance with her, she doesnt like you and is very unlikely to ever do, so get over her and move on, it is really annoying when someone u dont like, likes you! if you carry on trying to befriend her or get her a bday gift then things really might start to get ugly, stay away find a girl that loves you back!!
2007-03-08 19:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by prince14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're a little younger, maybe in middle or high school? This is NOT the girl of your dreams. You need to move on. This is the best advice anyone can give you. Move on. Get over her. I'm sure you're a great guy but she is immature and doesn't know what she's missing. Please consider my advice and suggestions, it really is the best thing.
2007-03-08 19:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to get over this girl.i think it is clear she dont want u in her life. she has move on and u should too.come on ,suck it up,find a new girl and have some fun. i am sure their is a girl out there that is dying for u to ask her out. being depress wouldnt get her back,it is sucking up all your energy and taking up precious time.
2007-03-08 19:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by macy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over her. You are being too emotionally dependent on her and she might see it as a sign of weakness. The best thing you can do is keep your distance.
2007-03-08 19:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A part of growing up is learning to let go. I know you don't want to, but you have to. Things will only get worse for you and maybe her, if you don't.
2007-03-08 19:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww I'm sorry she did that! Big Hug! If you buy her something, make it something simple, not expensive.
2007-03-08 19:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋