i'm 16 and he 17 and my friend call me one day and told me he datin one of her friends and women u know how we act if we find out our man is cheatin on us so we break up 4 a week and didn't speak 4 a week then sunday he came over 2 my house and we was in the room yellin at each other and we back together and we had make up sex but what should i do leave him 4 good or stay with him but i love him and the things he do make me feel good. what should i do?
2007-03-08 10:49:36 · 42 answers · asked by sexygirlgt21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people will say leave him, but i say follow your heart. If you HONESTLY think he'll stop (not just hope he does) then give him one more chance, but if he didn't learn from his mistake, leave his a$$!
2007-03-08 10:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Andii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you KNOW for sure that he dated your friend's friend? If you do - did THAT make you feel good? I kind of doubt it. What is it that he does that makes you feel good? Sex? HA! Honey - most of them can do that!
If you think that all you deserve is a man who lies and cheats on you - then go ahead and settle for this man (boy). If you have some self respect - and you know that it DIDN'T feel good when he went out with your friend's friend - then dump him.
And I'll ask you this too. Since you are 16 and having sex - are you prepared to have a baby and raise it, give a baby away, or kill a baby? You need to think about the fact that those will be your choices if you end up pregnant. Know too - that the only way to be absolutely sure that you WON'T end up pregnant is to NOT have sex.
Hope you make all the right choices!!
2007-03-08 10:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you then there's no way he either loves or respects you. And never believe that B.S. line "It just happened". That's a crock. Cheating takes a lot of planning, thinking and scheming. Dump him, now. Don't think about it. Just do it. I know it hurts but after the wound heals and you've had time to think about the whole thing you'll realize it's the best move you ever made. You'll be glad you did in the long run. Believe me there's a guy out there that will love and respect you as woman by being true to you.
2007-03-08 10:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by clayp72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has cheated on you and that is that simple . If he loved you he wouldn't have done it . Get rid of him immediately and you are such a young woman you have plenty of time in the world before you to get tied down . Making up in the form of sex is not the answer he got what he wanted that was sex and you fell for it . You don't love him you need to grow up first and go to school and learn ed to be independent . Love is not about sex , just trust what I am saying . Wishing you luck and God Bless you .
2007-03-08 11:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Gentleman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. what are you doing once a cheater always a cheater. You taking him back is only giving him more reasons to cheat as hill just think he can get away with it, have more respect foryourself. and as for love how can u when he obviously doenst love you. Think about it and be smart MOVE ON girl theres plenty of other fish in the sea
2007-03-08 10:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would cuss his AZ out and dump him so fast because if he did it this time he did it before and if you let him get away with it this time he will do it again. How dare this punk play you like that. I wouldn't have nothing to do with him any more.. Don't let him use some sorry AZ excuses either. You surely deserve better than to be treated like this.
There is someone out there waiting to treat you like Queen. This one isn't worth your tears. LEAVE HIS AZ 4 GOOD.;..
2007-03-08 10:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all....Do you you have proof that he cheated?! Cause if you dont then stay wit him but if you do dump him! Cause something you cant always go by want a friend says or think! you need to have PROOF!! But if you got the proof that he cheated then look at it this way maybe he wasnt the one for you! and you just know someone EVEN BETTER will come along!!!
2007-03-08 10:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with him after he has cheated on you, you just gave him a blank check to do whatever he wants to. Now he knows that you will take him back if he cheats on you again. WOW I know your young but get a back bone and stop being his doormat.
2007-03-08 10:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by UnderTigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still young & you have a better future ahead of you, dont waste your time with someone who can hurt you. he did it once he can do it again. before you make sex with the man be sure that his the right one for you, don't be in a hurry.... it will not help you grow up. explore your life in a different way. a piece of advice, choose a God fearing man....
2007-03-08 10:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by leigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you have feelings for someone that's Double-Dipped on you? You need a bout of Self-Respect. `Cause Lover-Boy is fresh out. Be good to yourself. Nobody else will. And certainly not him.
2007-03-08 10:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him for good. You are young and don't need this kind of stress! Study, date, and stay away from falling "in love" until you are older.
If you decide to have sex, remember to always use condoms.
2007-03-08 10:52:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋