Is it wrong to not feel comfortable to want to talk about those extremly weird, way out of the normal thoughts with your girlfriend//boyfriend? The thoughts you dont have much controll of?
2007-03-08 10:42:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no but trust is a must
2007-03-08 10:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some instances, sure. But think hard about why you wouldn't want to talk to him about it? Would it make him insecure? Would it make you seem scary? I mean if you guys are ina real good relationship, communication wise, then you shouldn't feel any discomfort telling him those things. The worst that could happen in a good relationship is a few laughs or if it intices a serious problem or something of that sort, you can always talk it out. Good luck!
2007-03-08 18:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wierd...
Sorry, but you really need to be able to comunicate on all levels... Wether it be discussing the intricasies of wiping your butt or maybe discussing how belly button lint just magically appears - you need to be able to say anything without feeling restricted...
2007-03-08 18:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by no_skank76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess there are some things that you dont have to share wiht anyone. some like talking about wierd kind of stuff but not everybody does. youre an individual, its up to you what you talk about.
2007-03-08 18:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know.... it depends on how close you are to your partner
if you know each other for a long time, than you should be comfortable with almost anything...
but if u are just new to each other, don't worry, it's good to be kind of shy... that shows that u are respect full and mannered
2007-03-08 18:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by 237kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, not wrong...no 1 should ever know every little last thang about u...if ur not comfortable talkin about stuff, don't...ur under no obligation 2 do so or feel bad about not doin so...
2007-03-08 18:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like my compulsion to hijack a Loomis Armed Vehicle every time I see one? Sure.
2007-03-08 18:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by sierraskyesmom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. it is alright to not feel comfortable sharing things that are private to you.
2007-03-08 18:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends on wht it is. if you trust your bf/gf with the things you tell them, then sure go ahead and tell them. but if you dont trust them, then just keep it to yourself..
2007-03-08 18:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by Marya L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all take charge of your thoughts, then no, you don't have to share them with anyone,
2007-03-08 18:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋