trust me it was a mistake the condom pop yes just my luck it was my first what should i do how should i tell my parents my lif sucks so much
2007-03-08 10:33:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
trust your parents. make a decision that you can be proud of and live with for the rest of your life. there are 3 options: abortion, adoption, and keeping the baby. do not let another person's judgement of you affect the adult the decision that you alone have to make. they are all good options and have different impacts on you.
2007-03-08 10:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by KitKat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes tell your parents. if your parents are the understanding type they will support you. have you talked with your boyfriend about the situation? if he supports you, you might want to consider talking to your parents together. sit them down and just be straight up and honest with them. research all of your options and DO NOT let anyone pressure you into making a decision. whatever you decide, keep in mind you will carry the consequences for the rest of your life. it sucks having to grow up so fast but you have to be mature and take responsibility for your actions. (that also includes your boyfriend)
2007-03-08 20:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by H P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell your parents. It will seem less scary once they know and even though this was a big boo-boo, you still have options, and they will help you decide the best one. If you absolutely don't want to (say you have a really bad relationship with them) go see a doctor to set you up with a guidance counsellor. But I would only use that option if it was your absolute last one. You need family right now.
2007-03-08 18:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me and while i was trying to figure out how to tell my parents my little sister spilled the beans looking back on it i really wish i had been the one to tell my mother but she took it ok she didnt freak or yell we sat down and had a long talk about my options and my feelings and hers i personally chose to have my son for me abortion wasn't an option but it is really your own choice now 4 years later i am married to the babys father we have another son together and i am a lot closer with my mom things happen for a reason. this is a big deal and i really think you need to just ask your mom or dad whom ever you feel more comfortable with or both if you could talk to them and tell them it is very important as calmly as possible tell them that you had sex and you used protection but it broke and you just found out that you are pregnant and that you need their help i wish you the best of luck and try to stay positive
2007-03-09 01:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by bluekittymomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but if you're old enough to have sex then you should be able to tell your parents.....and now is the time you need them the most, sometimes the right thing isnt always the easiest thing, i've been there. Just do it, you'll feel better and their advice will help you with your decision......its for the best, just be up front with them and tell them everything.....they might not be thrilled but they will love you anyway
2007-03-08 21:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life only sucks if you allow yourself to think that way.
You have a beautiful baby on the way, and a unique chance to build a close relationship with your mom.
Just tell them however you know they will handle it.
You are going to be okay and get through this.
2007-03-08 19:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. Trust me it will be hard and they will more than likely be disappointed, but they will support and help you in whatever you do. I was 15 when I got pregnant and it was hard, but I think telling my parents was somewhat relieving, it was good to know that you had someone to help you through everything.
2007-03-08 19:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be Straight up with your parents and tell them. You have two options. Keeping the baby with a responsible father or giving up the baby thru adoption. There many responsible couples who can not have children but can provide a loving, caring home.
Abortion is not an option it is murder!!!
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evils%20in%20America/Abortion%20is%20Murder/abortion_is_murder.htm
2007-03-08 19:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Peter M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur mature enuf to have sex in the first place then u should be mature enuf to make the right decision on what to do. u'll need all the support u can get right now so yes tell ur parents asap
2007-03-08 19:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you make a mistake, didn't you know what you were doing?
Tell your parents asap.
2007-03-08 19:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋