I have been best friends with this guy for 9 years and all of are friends say we need to get together but i can't decide if i like him as more than a friend and also i don't know if he likes me more than i friend. Should i try going out with him or just stay friends.
2007-03-08 10:29:58 · 16 answers · asked by Chelsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to think about whether or not you're attracted to him, you probably aren't. But wouldn't it be nice if you were?
2007-03-08 10:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my mom has always told me that if you aren't friends first in any relationship that you will never work out because you don't have a good foundation. Sounds like you have a good foundation....I think before you decide, you should figure out whether or not your friendship is strong enough to last if the relationship doesn't. Secondly, ask youself if you can see your friend in a romantic light....if so and the friendship is strong enough, go for it! Hope that helps! Good luck!
2007-03-08 18:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by spacesea3569 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not important what your friends are saying. what counts is how you feel. just you. not your friends or even the guy. If you re not certain if you like him as more than a friend then get to know him more. spend some more time with him. whatever decisions you come up with, it has to be because you re being true to yourself not out of pressure.
2007-03-08 18:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 years ill say stay friends
2007-03-08 18:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dodge's lil girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your friends think. what you need to think about is how important your friendship is because if he doesn't feel that way about you then your friendship will be akward after that. But the interesting thing is that you are listening to other people, figure out what you want first.
2007-03-08 18:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Cryssi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st, you have to decide if you like him like a friend or more, then ask how he feels about a relationship. Then just take it slow & be cautious.
2007-03-08 18:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Paul P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell ya, going out with a friend is an exellent way to lose a friend, i used to be friends with most my exes, then we went out, then we broke up and now i don't have em as friends anymore
2007-03-08 18:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to get through this dilemma is to communicate clearly your thoughts and intentions and find out for yourself how he feels. there would be no loss if done properly. a lot to gain if he feels the same way.
2007-03-08 18:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by rsinfante69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are friends for so long
and you still don't know if you feel more
than stay friends
i mean where would the feeling surprisingly grow from????
it doesn't work
believe me
don't risk that friendship
2007-03-08 18:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by 237kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are forever
2007-03-08 18:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by DizziDazi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋