I've been with my boyfriend for three months. So far he hate being in any place where there's lot of people such as bar, pub, club, party, etc... I've tried to take him to few parties that my friends host but he usually end up leave in less half a hour.
He's also aloof toward most people. I'd try to introduce him to people, he would just nods and smile abit and say "nice to meet you" before walk off.
People have told me that he's very difficult to approach and he usually look pissed off, aloof, or just plainly unapproachable.
He also doesn't really have very many friends at all and if he was to get together with friends, they usually are small group and go out for coffee or go rock climbing or jet ski.
He have met my parents and they absolutely LOVE him, especially my father. They talk a lot about everything!
I don't understand why he's like this? He only seems to open up to certain people and hate being in any socialing place. What's up with this?
2007-03-08 10:27:11 · 2 answers · asked by cfrei8 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Not everyone is very sociable, especially in large groups of people. Try going out to smaller events more often; he might be far more sociable if you have just one friend over or if you go to dinner with one other couple, rather than going to a party.
2007-03-08 17:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sheriam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
he sounds like me
enjoy him,
being a social butterfly is not all its cracked up to be.
trust me, if your dad likes him, and you like him, hes a good man.
2007-03-09 19:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by Trid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋