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I'm not trying to sound gross or anything (and no idiots allowed to answer this ok? ) But why do people say "Who's your daddy?" during sex? >.< It's just....wierd.

And while I'm at it, why do (for some reason) after sex, someone starts smoking?

2007-03-08 10:23:45 · 19 answers · asked by Someoneyoudontknow 1 in Society & Culture Etiquette

19 answers

The term "daddy" is used by some girls as a nickname for their boyfriend or husband. Im not sure what race or ethnicity your from but usually used among hispanics and blacks(not racially speaking but ive just noticed its more of a slang term in our cultures) in spanish "papi" or "mami" for a girl....its used for a guy who looks out for his woman and takes care of her like a daddy....it is usually only used as an ego booster for males and during sex they like to know theyre the boss and theyre large and in charge lol(even though not always the case)..........as for smoking....well during sex theres alot of muscle tension released from all the contraction of the internal organs which is why you feel pleasure after you come or the orgasm w/e...so if you smoke then you know smoking causes a sensation of relaxation which is kindof the same sensation you feel after sex so the two mix and you feel more relieved afterwards...hope i explained myself correctly and it makes sense to ya lol dont take the whole "whos your daddy" thing litteral it doesnt mean he's your father or anything..chill lol

2007-03-08 11:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Beckhams_wifie 2 · 1 1

This funny thing happened to a friend of mine. He was with his girl, and they were in the moment. And he goes who's your daddy? Who's your daddy? And the girl screamed out John Doe (she called out her dad's real name). Needless to say, he has never asked that again.

2007-03-08 13:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 0 0

I feel that the whole who's your daddy comment makes a man feel like he is in control, and that he makes the decisions, instead of the other way around. It makes a man feel like he is worth something. I feel that sometimes sex can be stressful in the way that you want to make sure the other partner enjoyed it and if it lasted long enough, this makes thing a stress, and I feel that a cigarette calms you down some.

2007-03-08 11:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by af_grl_af 2 · 1 2

I'm still laughing give me a second.
People have different likes and dislikes as to what they want to hear their lover scream out. There is no set decorum as to what everyone likes to hear.
For those who smoke (like me) there's nothing more satisfying than to have great sex and enjoy a cigarette, almost (but not quite) as satisfying as having a good meal and enjoying a cigarette.

2007-03-08 10:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

i'm sorry if a guy said "who's your daddy" to me during sex i would probably be so turned off that i wouldnt know what to do that is too wierd for explanation. maybe its a dominance thing. as for smoking after sex i do it to get my boyfriend to get into the shower lol.(he hates smoking)

2007-03-08 10:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

When he ask "Who's your daddy" he's wanting to hear "you are". If he sits up to smoke right after sex, my guess would be he hasn't been satisfied.

2007-03-08 15:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0 1

After reading the other answers, I'd say this is a personal thing between you and your "old man". LOL Hope it wasn't one of Bill's cigars he starts to smoke.

2007-03-08 11:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

The who's your daddy is a reference to pedeophilia and the smoking is too relax afterwards.

If someone says 'who's your daddy!', they have probably been convicted of child rape at some point.

2007-03-08 11:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 4

A guy said that to me once and it sickened me. I think it did have something to do with domination. I do smoke after sex, I don't know why exactly.

2007-03-08 10:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by veil_of_tears_97 2 · 0 1

Egads!! I am from a different generation than you are, and I do not smoke.

I would laugh out loud if I heard those words during sex.


You watch too many movies , kiddo.

2007-03-08 10:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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