i just recently started seriously talking and going out with girls (17) and i have a girlfriend but there is this girl i have always liked and wanted to talk to and get to know but i was always scared. i like my gf alot and have no intentions of cheating or breaking up with her. should i feel guilty if i get the other girl's phone number and talk to her even though i have no further intentions other than getting to know and talk to the girl?
2007-03-08 10:09:40 · 8 answers · asked by mark c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you have always liked an wanted to talk with this other girl, to get her number while you have a girlfriend would not be fair play unless your current girlfriend gets to meet her too. If you treat a relationship with respect - your entitled to receive the same in return.
I'm sorry I'm not giving you the answer your looking for.
2007-03-08 10:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by STAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but why are you getting the phone number, think about that. Is it because you liked the girl and have always dreamed of getting her number and want the feeling of finally getting what you wanted? Or is it just because she's a cool person?
2007-03-08 18:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of men ask or take a girls number out of politeness. But you should feel guilty if you act upon it.
2007-03-08 18:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by prttychk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh but you DO have some intentions-you are already preparing the way for a future date with this other girl-maybe during a fight with your present girlfriend?
2007-03-08 18:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by prettywoman_eks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt feel guilty if u r strictly gonna b friends with this girl...but i highly doubt that thats all its gonna b.....after all u said u have always liked her and wanted to talk to her....what if u do talk to her n u like her even more, then ur gonna b in a big dilemma....
2007-03-08 18:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by nenagrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 17? nah, enjoy life man...
... if u were about 30 and you were getting married it might be a different story.
2007-03-08 18:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word player...jp.. well let her know you only want to be friends, be forward with her, or she might get hurt.. you should feel a little guilty... just tell her...then its up to her if she wants to talk to you...
2007-03-08 18:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by nickydig9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just want to keep her on the side!
2007-03-08 18:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋