How do i get him to like me...wat do i say, and should i move on?

Question

i like this guy, and he knows that i like him. hes on the swim team, and all of his friends told him, and so have i. this was over 2 months ago. we dont talk that much, but he doesnt make an effot to talk to me either. i try to talk to him, but everytime i do, he ends the conversations short. recently he got all blushy and giggly wen i walked into his classroom unexpectedly. im not sure if i should move on, because i still like him, but theres also this other guy that im pretty sure likes me. my friends tell me that i should just confront the shy guy again, but im not sure wat to say to him. what should i say, and should i move on?

Answer 1

You should move on to me.

Answer 2

There's really no way to force somebody to like you. However, as you said the guy you like got all blushy and giggly when you walked into his class unexpectedly. That tells me that he's very aware of you. He may even like you but is too shy to say. He may not be in the same place that you are in wanting a relationship. It seems that the other guy that you mentioned likes you. It doesn't hurt to flirt with both guys to see which you like the most and which returns your attentions. Plus, there's a lot of other fish in the sea, or millions of men in the oceans, if you get my drift. I hope you have loads of fun exploring the depths. God Bless, Martha S.

Answer 3

talk to him, ask him if he has a girlfriend and see his reaction. You have to be straight foward. Get him alone away from his friends n ur friends to. Then tell him you like and and you wanna know if he wants to date you. If he says no then say ok then lets be friends.

I was a shy guy too. Their was this girl i really liked. She would always turn around and stare at me but i wasn't sure if she liked, I wasn't really experienced with girls then. At a camping trip we kissed for like 20 minutes, This girl was the hottest girl in the class, I was the only boy in my class who ever did anything with her (she wasn't a ho so im sure of that, but you never know) anyway I asked her out n she said no because she was moving in two weeks. She was really shy to but I dont what would of happened if I asked her out, it could of been a great relationship. Her best friend even asked my best friend if i wanted to go to the prom with her but again i was to shy to say yes.

In conclusion, don't end up like me, ha ha. Maybe he likes you to so go for it. At least you'll know the truth, and it will be easier to move on if he says no and you know he dosen't feel the same way. Don't hold anything against him if he says no he might just not be ready for a gf, and if ur nice about if he says no he might try to ask you out after sometime. DEFINATELY do not date that other boy who likes you because you want to make this guy jealous, I hate when girls do that and its not fair to date someone to make someone else jealous. Im gettin carried away so ill leave it at that. Keep it real, play it cool and good luck

Answer 4

Depends on how many times you approached him. If you try to talk to him and he keeps cutting you short, take the hint and move on.

As for the other guy who likes you, you didn't say if you liked him back. So just because someone is "waiting in the wings" doesn't mean that you should go for him if the first option fails.

Answer 5

You should probably move on. But I don't recommend going for a guy just because he likes you. Hopefully you like him too, or just wait until you find another guy that you are attracted to.

Answer 6

Move on.

Answer 7

I have been told never outright sell yourself. (try too hard) Let the guy realize who you are on his own. If he takes too long to notice...move on.

Answer 8

you cant get a person to like, like you. but, just start talking to him. everything normally starts with a talk

Answer 9

move on

Answer 10

sounds like me hehe just go for it