Ok I have a rather large forehead. My mom tells me its not that big but I think that it is big enough to notice. It ruined my life so far. I dont make friends good because I get joked on all the time and it makes me have a bad mood so naturally people dont really bother with me. No boys ever pay attention to me. They tell me that I would be perfect if I didn't have such a big forehead. I am pretty everywhere else but my forehead. I wear bangs but it makes me feel kind of worse because it makes me feel as if I am not really me. I really dont like wearing bangs. This makes me so down and I think so low of myself. People tell me that I have to learn how to love myself but how do I even begin that? How do I do it? This just makes me so sad and I have cried over this so so many times and I still feel the same. Please help me.
2007-03-08 09:54:07 · 12 answers · asked by smfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOBODY is fully satisfied with how they look, even if they seem to be.
Nobody is perfect, everyone has something they're not happy with, except some people hide their feelings more easily, or importantly have learned to love and accept themselves.
Your forehead wont affect your life, love etc.Its important to think about the many positive things u have
Be cool!
Love from Ireland
Paul
2007-03-08 09:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has something that they don't like about themselves. For me, it is my boobs. They are very small. I got made fun of all through school but it stoped in high school because I changed my attitude. I dressed in things I felt comfortable with and it showed. Nobody ever mentioned them again. I was surprised. But all you have to do is wear your hair the way you like it!!! The happiness in you shows and what other people think or say won't matter. I'm sure you will find a good friend that isn't shallow and won't make fun of you. Just be yourself and people will stick to you like glue!
2007-03-08 18:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by luvmrtnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When boys are young...they are dumb...trust me...I never made fun of any girls....there was a few I didn't talk to that I wished I did...I wished I got to know them...As a an adult I've taught my kids looks are not everything...it's the heart that matters...Thats like I seen a girl who was in the 1st grade back when i was a kid then a few yrs later she was very pretty.
or a little girl who was about 7 or 8 yrs old she was ugly i mean ugly,,,I was about 13 or so but i was always nice to her she moved away and then when I was about 21 this pretty young lady started to talk to me one day..and she said do you remeber me...I said no I'm sorry and she told me her name...My jaw almost hit the floor..She remebered for being nice to her..and I thought my God I wish she was a yr or 2 older..
Time helps with everything....looks and plus boys mature some to...ok..plus I sure you are just fine the way you are ok...
2007-03-08 18:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one who cares what people say. You are both beautiful in the inside and also the outside. We weren't to all of us to be perfect but you need to understand one thing. You are what you are and get used to it and all the cracjks about you just let them bounce away and enjoy the day. One day a guy will come and love you for you and not worry what anybody will say. SO be patient. And if you need to chat with someone just IM me anytime.
2007-03-08 18:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but if people are still judging you based on your forehead then they are pretty shallow. Like in the movie "stuck on you" don't 'deny, deny, deny', but instead 'embrace, embrace, embrace'. Nobody is perfect and we all have things that we are self-conscious about. you're human. If I were you, I would start strutting my stuff. Fake it, till you make it. that's how you get good self-esteem. Good Luck
2007-03-08 18:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gringarican 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do whatever you want but if your better looking with the bangs then i would keep them. If guys are telling you that you "would" be perfect if it wasnt for that one flaw then its there loss not to like you.
Pride comes first, Dont let ANYONE stomp on your pride!
Stick up for yourself!
2007-03-08 17:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by noviballer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine how you'd feel if you were a midget. Or an amputie! You got it good. In a few years you'll be getting drunk at parties and those same boys will be all over you, bangs or otherwise.
2007-03-08 17:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself and don't worry about what other ppl think. If you are really worried about the size of your forheard you can go to a haircutters and ask them for a stlye that would help minimize the size of it...
but most of all be yourself and be happy with who you are.
2007-03-08 17:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey that is insult in my believe because when my mom alive she tell me "when Javanese girl don't have big forehead she's not pretty and hard to find husband". if you don't believe me you can search it under javanese picture, so if i was you i'll be happier.
p.s
just be your self ok and be happy.
2007-03-08 18:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ni Jen Ku El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur a high school student...u should know not to care...people should accept who u are and just be ur friend...and if ur in k-8...then it's a part of growing up(being made fun of) i dont think that helped much but yea...
2007-03-08 17:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by Pineapples aren't quiet Strawberries!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋