I'm 22 soon to be 23 i think i might be going threw depression i lost 45 pounds in the last 3 years i still feel fat as ever and i recently got dumped i cant cope with anything anymore i dont want to go to school anymore but i have so much pressure from my family and i feel alone like noone can understand me help!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-08 09:50:03 · 6 answers · asked by mima 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I've also starded smoking a lot of weed and cigarette i even drink wich i never use to do
2007-03-08 09:52:29 · update #1
Weed will make depression worse. I've tried it and it does.
Ask to see your family doctor. He can get you started with any medication help and refer you and your family to a good counselor. Keep going to school. Get involve and stay involved in activities at school or church or community groups. Don't isolate yourself from people. Get in some walking, biking. running, or swimming every day this helps on many levels.
2007-03-08 09:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy to go down that drinking path but this will make your problems worse...you will be adding to them. So many people with mental illness go down that route.
Please go and get yourself some professional help. The starting place is your own doctor who can refer you to the proper services that you need.
You will get a lot of help and support. Please do this now....there are better ways of coping than alcohol and weed....which as you probably already know are depressants...downers they have a physical effect on your brain that will bring you further down. They may make you feel happy at the time but it's afterwards that it makes things even worse.
Best wishes, I hope this helps a bit.
2007-03-08 17:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a beatifull person, and very smart. Please, don't give so much attention to your body, or the opinion of persons that don´t agree with your values.
The real treassure of a person is inside, and you, asking help, shows that you like to enjoy life, insteed of been sad.
You are not alone, thousend of people feel as you....Even my self, but I ask help to a psycology, and he help me a lot! Can you ask for medical help? Also, I recommend you read books of Transaccional Analisys, of Eric Berne, to undersand more yourself.
It would be cool if you can find a psyco that use transaccional analisys method. It's smart, and quikly.
Let me send you LIGHT & LOVE.
2007-03-08 18:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-destructive behavior will not help depression. I am not judging you here. I suffer from depression and believe that if I had gotten help when I was your age, my life would have been a lot better.
Please talk to a doctor and get a diagnosis and treatment. Good luck to you.
2007-03-08 18:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the weed and drinking
see a Dr to get some help so you can get your life back on track God loves you and many more people then you think do too
2007-03-08 17:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to feel sad at various times in life. Its only temporary. Chat with me anytime if you need someone to talk to.
Bye
God Bless
2007-03-08 20:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Elias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋