If the girl knows that you like her?
Like being unpredictable or to ditch her once in awhile. And not being around her everyday. Let her miss you once in awhile..
Let her keep guessing stuff like that?
2007-03-08 09:43:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But she is doing it to me .. so what do i do?
2007-03-08 09:50:41 · update #1
NO YOU HAVE TO BE PERSISTANT, DETERMINED AND REALLY INTERESTED SO MUCH THAT YOU WONT GIVE UP NO MATTER WHAT.. THAT WILL SHOW HER THAT YOU REALLY CARE AND ARE REALLY INTERESTED AND DETERMINED TO GET HER!!! IT WILL WORK!! AS LONG AS SHE LIKES YOU A LIL BIT SHE CANT SAY NO...
2007-03-08 10:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's a masochistic loser then that sounds like the right tactics. If she has self-esteem, then she'll be put off by the mindgames and most likely will go look for a guy who is more mature and forget you.
Try complimenting her! Tell her that you like her hair or her outfit or whatever. Pay her attention. Be courteous.
Sure, you don't have to be around her every day. Nobody wants a stalker! But you don't have to be unpredictable or ditch her. Be yourself! Because, when it comes down to it, you'll have to be yourself sometime!
2007-03-08 17:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laying low or especially ditching her defiantly works for getting the girl especially for the other guy.
while playing these games some other dude will snatch your girl.
not being together everyday is not bad and we all defiantly need our own space, remember there will be a day she will ditch you in return for something better if you don't respect her as a woman.
Good luck.
2007-03-08 17:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Chiprat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! We like being chased. You cause hurt feelings if you ditch her. You can be unpredictable by leaving a flower for her in a place where she will find it. But don't be mean!
2007-03-08 17:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound like laying low to me......that's mind games, and a guy who has to play mind games to get a girl just wouldn't cut it for me. Just be you...be yourself, let her know that you want her, what's so hard about that?....that's what all women want.
2007-03-08 17:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! don't do that. that is nothing bad bc then she will think u are childish and will not want to be around u. she will move on bc your not paying her any attention. flirt with her make her smile and laugh. make her feel special. but if u keep going at the rate u are going u will be sorry and u will regret it. trust me.
2007-03-08 17:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is plain mean. that kept me and my man away from each other for 2 years cause he decided to lay low. so dont do it!
2007-03-08 17:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just make sure you don't push her too far away... Sometimes girls don't like to be toyed with.
2007-03-08 17:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lord no! why do guys always think that? girls like to know that boys like them just hang out with her
2007-03-08 17:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by mariah!:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ask her out girls really hate asking boys out or showing feelings if you are forward with her she will respect you more
2007-03-08 17:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by dracofan93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋