2007-03-08 09:38:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm fully for it unless you either of you have children. Living together brings you closer and in a way is kind of like a test run before you get married. you'll learn to live together and get use to seeing eachother more often. if you have children i think its important to wait until after youre married before living together. having their parents get remarried is usually hard on kids and god forbid you break up after living together, it'll really make them upset.
2007-03-08 09:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a good idea. It would be awful to get married and then realize that you can't live with this person. My boyfriend and I moved in together a little over 3 months ago and I am glad we did because we are working out all of the issues now!
2007-03-08 17:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All for it....marriage is a huge thing already, and I think sometimes there's so much shock when you get married and have to live under the same roof at the same time. Seems too stressfull. I like the fact of living with one another ahead of time..that way you really get to know who they are and how they live and work out the kinks before you tie the knot!
2007-03-08 17:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the best way to grow your relationship. It is a good trial before you get married or engaged. It is possible you are a great couple, but not so cohesive once you live together.
It gives you the chance to see what compromises you will have to make to live together, to be married later. What are you both willing to give up to live together, and in the long run-are those things worth giving up to be together, or are those things more important and you need not live to gether so you can have them?
2007-03-08 17:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by beetrippin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really all a personal thing. I did it. It doesn't bother me what people decide to do. Some people see it as trying the shoe on for size before buying it and some people are simply more traditional but in any case, it's an persons choice and it really doesn't matter what others think as long as those two people are of age of course.
2007-03-08 17:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I lived together for 2 years before we got married. It helped us to grow together before we made the commitment of marriage. We really knew eachother by the time we got married.
However, living together before marriage is not for everyone! Make sure it's something that you BOTH want.
2007-03-08 17:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a big thing and that you should so you know if you are able to deal with everything. Things are different when you see them all the time like that and have to deal with everything together. People are always different when you live in the same house.
2007-03-08 17:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing in the world that could be better for 2 people in lust that plan to get married.you have to live together for at least 1 year before marriage.when you live together you get to know that person better than themselves.than the LOVE comes.
2007-03-08 17:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by CHICKIE593 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I would have done that before I got married. You learn alot about them while living with them. Things that you might not have learned while dating and engaged.
2007-03-08 17:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by chrihutch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
angie n andy here
if its ur future spouse then why should it matter inless you plan on doing something u dont want the other to see
2007-03-08 17:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋