He's been going out with her for 17 weeks...but 2 weeks ago i admitted to him that i loved him and he told me that he really liked me too, but he didn't want to hurt his girlfriend. The next day we started making out and it was great, but it made me love him even more. we both felt bad for his girlfriend afterwards and sed we'd neva do it agen but then 2 days ago we did it agen...but he's still going out with his girlfriend...i asked him 'r u gunna finish her' and he sed 'no cos i've neva finished anyone b4 and i don't want to hurt her wen she hasn't done nething wrong...does he really like me back or is he just using me??
2007-03-08 09:23:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is using you--YOU are letting him use you. If he is not man enough to make this decision, and your feelings for him are that strong--then you must make the decision for him. It's best to get all this out in the open, you need to grab the bull by the horn's and speak to him, tell him straight up what is what, tell him he should make a choice--her or you, tell him you will not cheat and do not expect him to either. At the moment, he is in seventh heaven, he is getting it from two people/having his cake and eating it--(what ever way you want to put it)--you going to let him get away with that? It's guy's like him who give decent guy's a bad name--women see guy's like him and automatically tar us all with the same brush. Straighten this guy out, 'coz if he is using you, then it's not love...it's lust.
2007-03-08 21:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have MUG written across your forehead?
Jeez this fella must be comng in his pants, a regular girlfriend and a bit on the side, which is all you are to him, the best of both worlds!
Back off, you know he's got a g/f and yet your more than happy to "make out" behind her back, and this is the kind of guy you want to be with?, either your a total bit@h or you dont mind being used when the fancy takes him!
You say you dont want to hurt his G/F, so why do you keep making out with him?, he's unavaliable so let sleeping dogs lie and have a bit more respect for yourself, yes he's using you because your letting him do so, i hope his G/F gets wind of this and launches you both into outer space because it's what you both deserve.
Once is bad enough, but twice is taking the pi$$ , she hasn't done anything wrong and your right to feel guilty because what your doing is wrong, very wrong!
I've been in this situation myself, ex B/F cheated on me, and he ended up cheating on the other girl as well, remember that the next time your making out behind her back, WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND! and if he can do it to her you can be damn sure he wont give you a second thought!
2007-03-08 11:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you asked does he really like me or is he using me?
I believe the question you need to ask your self is he using her because one way or another he's using one of you!.
and the fact that he's going out with you means that he's willing to cheat. So the question you need to ask tour self now is can you trust him?
think what you are doing not just to her but to your self do either of you deserve it, having to share the same man?
what ever you decide you have to live with it!.
and please don't take on board any negative comments that makes you him or her sound bad at the end of the day when love is involved thing's get messy and at the end of the day I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad I'm just pointing out the facts.
2007-03-08 09:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Gilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that he needs to make a choice. I realize he doesn't wanna hurt his girlfriend, but obviously..he doesn't care too deeply for her, or he would've never cheated on her with you in the first place..and if she found out about you two, I'm pretty sure it'd hurt her worse than if he'd just break up with her..
2007-03-08 09:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not serious about you - you've just put him in a position where he can make out with both of you. Find a guy that is single and is not cheating on someone when they are with you!!!
2007-03-08 09:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 10:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him make a decision a.s.a.p. Don't let it linger or somebody is gonna get hurt. You don't want to be the other woman. But, that is exactly what will happen if you allow him to continue on this road.
2007-03-08 09:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by So-Cal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you charged him, the best you could be is a prostitute. Yes, he is using you. get pictures of the next make-out session, and show them to his girlfriend. He is an A*S*S and if he does it to her,,, he will do it to you. You are better off without him. Think just a bit and you will know it is true!!!!
2007-03-08 09:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave well alone! Sorry to say this but imagine you were the gf.How would you feel about another girl on the scene looking to take him off you?
2007-03-08 15:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either do with out a boy friend, find another guy or wait in the wings for (maybe) a long time for him to break up with her. But....butt out of his relationship...cheating and cheaters.....suck...
2007-03-08 09:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋