My dad always use to let me play with his cell phone, when I was bored. But lateley he hides it from me, and refuses to let me see it.
But I know where he hides it now.
I check every morning.
And lateley, there are these messages saying, "I love you"/"I put the pictures, for you".
And my dad replies with messages like, "I can't talk now, but I love you!"
And I know it isn't my mother, cause she has no idea on how to use a phone.
Am I just jumping to conclusions, or am I right!
I don't really wanna tell my mother. Cause I really don't want my parenets to split. It would be so horriable. I don't know what to do!
2007-03-08 09:19:52 · 15 answers · asked by jEfFeRsOnAiRpLaNe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell your dad you know
2007-03-08 09:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your in a tight spot, Sorry to hear that your seeing this stuff on the phone; sometimes these things pass and nothing becomes of them. I recommend you leave the phone alone.
I aslo recommend you not tell your mom, as you could be wrong. Sometimes these things need to run there course and it's to bad your there to see it happen. Either way, it will run it's course and things will happen or not without your telling anyone.
One thing you could do, is simply ask your dad about the phone messages. It may wake him up, he may get pissed at you, may not. I think you have a right to know, he may not tell you, but again, he may realize how stupid he is if something is going on.
2007-03-08 17:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Adonai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this probably isnt going to be the response you're looking for, but you can't say anything. if you tell your dad that you know, he'll know that you were looking at his phone without his permission (and obviously against his wishes). and you can't tell your mom for the same reason plus the fact that if you're wrong (which, unfortunately, i don't think you are), it would be a mistake that you can't reverse. you just have to let your parents do what they're doing and you can't stop them. none of this has to do with you, so you shouldn't worry about it being your fault or anything. some things just don't work out as planned, and you have to let it take it's course.
i wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-08 17:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by DivaHawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually had a very similar thing happened to me but i over herd my dad talking on the cell phone to the other woman and he didn't see me which unfortunatly the other woman is my step mom now. I told my mom simply because she has a right to know and you might not want your family to split but its that or have a family that is full of lies. More than likly there are deeper problems going on between your parents that you don't know about.
2007-03-08 17:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Maybe it's true but it never hurts to ask. Though he might get mad if he knows you have been sneaking around reading through his text messages. Obviously he isn't too worried about getting caught if he doesn't erase them off his phone. Then again, maybe it's his sister or mom (depending on what the pictures are)
2007-03-08 17:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by lalia_80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, keep your hands off your father’s cell phone.
Second, stay out of it. This is an ADULT problem between your parents. And generally, Mom already knows/suspects what's going on. She usually doesn’t need anyone to tell her.
2007-03-08 18:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting...i wouldn't jump to conclusions and say that your dad is cheating, but he is definitaly hiding something. maybe you should tell him that you would like to go out for dinner with just him and then ask him what is going on and tell him that you heard some of those messages... and see where it goes from there
2007-03-08 17:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. Talk to your dad about it. Tell him what you see. Ask him.
2007-03-08 19:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your father is having an affair no doubt at all.as hard as it maybe your mother has the right to know.i really do feel sorry for you,finding yourself in this position.i hope things work out for you.
2007-03-08 17:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just wait it out and pray. that the best thing to do. If it gets really bad then i would get help.
2007-03-08 17:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP snooping! It's none of your business, and you will just make things worse with your assumptions. Your mom is smart, she'll figure it out....or maybe she knows...and is still sticking around....my mom did...for 10- years.
It doesn't affect you really, your mom will always be your mom and your dad will always be your dad....
2007-03-08 17:24:20 · answer #11 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋