I fell in love with a guy, many years ago.It was the same for both of us, for the first time in our thirties. With bad timing we never ended up together. He was with someone, and took too long to make a decision, by which time, I was involved elsewhere.When I was free again he was still with the same person that he had intended leaving for me before. But desperate to be a father, he had a child with her. And remains in what he refers to as an unhappy relationship. But stays for the sake of the kid.Although living hundreds of miles apart now we still meet up every so often. We normally don't communicate much inside this period. But now that i have met someone else he has started to send me more intense love letters.But when I suggest meeting him, all has gone silent. What is his game?
2007-03-08 09:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by lavito 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being a home wrecker and move on. This guys an obvious loser and does not respect you or his current lover.
Have you stopped and asked yourself what the hell your doing?
It just wasn't meant to be. You should read the book "He's not that into you". You're not being fair to yourself or your current fling. As for his game your a side of ***. Its interesting for him to keep you around because its exciting. The thrill of the chase but he's not going to leave his current unless she dumps him. You're his backup. That's his game. Whats yours?
2007-03-08 09:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dungeon Master 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, if he wanted to really be with you he'd be with you, no excuses. Maybe he just uses your relationship as a scapegoat, you know a glimmer of hope that one day he can be in a good/happy relationship. Don't waste your time. Even if you are going to be with each other, he's going to have soo much drama with baby mama.
2007-03-08 17:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, please don't take this the wrong way but... he's playin you. He wants you when HE wants you and nothing more.... he wants you at his disposal.... moooooove on... and better yet, maybe you can try posting or looking him up on a website that I found called www.pastrelationships.com.. or maybe he's already on there... maybe then, you can either warn other people about him or be warned yourself.
2007-03-08 17:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by thenuttybaldprofesser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be so obvious to you. And you need to move on with your life. He is just keeping you around for extra curricular activities when he can and will make himself available for you. Good luck and God bless****
2007-03-08 17:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just not that into you plain and simple. If he was really feeling you then he would be acting weird.
2007-03-08 17:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just not meant to be, that happens sometimes
2007-03-08 17:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you to remain his mistress, but is afraid to take the risks himself...
2007-03-08 17:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋