What can I do? Help! And by the way sory for any miss spelled words!?

Question

I came home from school and my mom asked me how i got to school because i had missed the bus.I told her that jaci came to give me a ride to school and then she starts acten like i lied at her and sayen i'm gonna call her and see if she did and the school to see if you even went to school in the first place.I'm like mom stop acten like i'm a lier cause i'm tellen the truth.After dat she walks of sayen she didn't.Later my little sis comes up to me wanten to smell her used deoterant and i push her hand away sayen no. She like always starts tellen mom i hit her.I'm like no i didn't.Mom gott all mad and tired like always and grounded me and my little sis after tina had thrown the dogs toy behind the counch cause she was so mad that mom didn't beleive her for once.I'm mad cause now i cant go to da play. i have to be there by 5 since i'm in it. Then i start tellen her dat she can't ground me for nothen then she says fine then your grounded for yellen.What can i do? Sory for miss spelled words

Answer 1

well if you're in a play it isn't fair to everyone else for you not be allowed to go.
I would sit down with your mom and calmly tell her your side of the story and let her know everyone else in the play is counting on you.
Good luck

Answer 2

You don't say how old you are, buy have you thought that your Mom might be expecting you to act a little more grown up than you seem to be acting right now? It sounds to me like this might not be the first time you have given her reason to mistrust you, and therefore in looking out for you and making sure you're safe, she wants you to tell her the truth. If you want to be treated like a grown up, then start behaving like one. You are responsible for your actions, and if you think that yelling at your Mom is OK then I can tell you quite clearly that it isn't. You should sit down with her and tell her you're sorry and then talk about why you argued - no yelling, just talking. You don't mention your Dad, is he around or is your Mom a single parent? If she is on her own, then you need to understand that it's a hard job and she's only doing what's best for you and your sister. Try and help her around the house, do chores for her and make her feel loved - she's the only Mom you'll ever have, so give her the respect she deserves and you'll probably get the same in return. As for your spelling & grammar, I can understand why she thinks you might be bunking off school. You won't get anywhere in life if you don't work for it, so how about you knuckle down to some serious school work so that not only only can your Mom be proud of you, you can be proud of yourself too. You'll feel better for it, and you might lose some of that anger.

Answer 3

Your poor mum, she's trying to brng you and your little sister up right and all she gets is you shouting at her.

Never mind the play, you were right about your spelling so how about showing your mum you can be trusted by reading some books and doing your homework and maybe helping your little sister a bit too? Then your mum will have a daughter she can be proud of.

Answer 4

just keep taking deep breaths and see it as a force field from god stopping you from going out, and your mum is exorcising the force field. Your little sis is craving to be the favourite child and probably wants the house to herself when she is older. My sister and me fought and i was thrown out, for 4 yrs i was homeless but i got a lovely house now for free from the council and she is stuck at home so i ended up better. People who intentionally try to get you in trouble are just very upset people and more comfort should be given so please tell your family that you love them and tell them that you love yourslef too, and that you want a bright and happy future so ask them how to achieve this goal.

Answer 5

if you had missed the bus and you are sure you actually went to school with jaci, you should have quickly asked your mom to call jaci. this would have given her the assurance that her girl is not telling lies.

your mother have every right to monitor you, to see what you do (that is why she is your mother) and you have to appreciate / adore her.

i think you need to apologise to your mother, whether you are write or wrong ok.

Answer 6

Oh dear, your house sounds a bit manic at the moment. I think you all need to be away from one another to calm down!

Answer 7

Instead of being worried about a play maybe you should take some extra english classes.

Answer 8

tell your mom to get a life ie a man in her life she missing out on something a man can sort her !!!!! make her happy and plesent again

Answer 9

did she ever verify that you did leave with Jaci?? why haven't you told your mom..ok call jaci then because I'm not lying..problem solved