i dont know if i sould or not
2007-03-08 09:08:24 · 18 answers · asked by william w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, 8 years is too long to wait for someone. You will both change a lot over that time.
2007-03-08 09:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you. Are you married? Do you have any kids together? My mother waited for my dad for 6 1/2 years. They were together for a long time before that. And it was just a big mistake that landed him there. A dumb bar fight. Anyway. If you love her, try it out. It seems like a long time. But it goes by a lot faster than you think. Visit her if you can. It might make things better in your relationship.
2007-03-08 09:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love here then this should not be a question, if she was in jail for 20 years and you care about her you should wait. But the choice is yours...if you know you are not going to be faithful then dont wait break up with her, but if you are a good guy God will work something out for you. and if you done last maybe you 2 were not meant to be...leave it in God's hands maybe he has someone better in store for you.
2007-03-08 09:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by QueenB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first off 8 in years you will be a different person and she definitely be a different person. I would say don't wait. The only reason that i would wait is if you are married to her and you have kids together
2007-03-08 09:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a waste of a life for u. suppose u wait patiently for her, and when she gets out, she doesn't want u anymore. or what if she has changed, as prison does change people. she just wants someone to be there for her while she is in there, but it is a bad idea bad for u, good for her. u need to get a new life, and forget her, she will change, so will u. why deny yourself happiness waiting on someone that will not be the same when she gets out.
2007-03-08 09:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you have to consider many things... have you two been together for a long time? Do you really love her? Are you really willing to wait 8 years? And if you are will you still feel the same for her.
2007-03-08 09:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...if she is in prison it implies she may not be the best of choices to begin with. 8 years is a very long time. My advice--have a life, and let her get hers in order. If it is meant to be it will happen in well...8 years.
2007-03-08 09:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's totally up to you, unfortunately. But I can say this: I had a boyfriend who is currently serving 3 years, and I was only able to write to him for about four months. It became very emotionally draining, and there's no way a relationship can grow under those circumstances. It was so unhealthy for me, I had to let it go. So while you're the only one who can make that decision, from my experience, I would have to say let her go.
2007-03-08 09:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Amy R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i would move on but thats just me. i wouldnt want to be with anybody who has been to prison
2007-03-08 09:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by lawson403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need more details...are you married to her, how long have you been together, are you really in love with her, does she expect you to wait?
2007-03-08 09:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋