why does he want to hurt?

Question

I just seen my ex-boyfriend ...... he is ignoring me .... but all my feelings came back when i seen him .... but i have no clue what to ask him or even if i should talk to him or just play it is his way ... but i mena i really like he again but all my friends were right about him he only wanted me for sex soo... he might do it again if he does talk to me ... but i dont know if i should ignore him or talk to him ??? someone help

Answer 1

I know your feelings came back for him, but know that if he just ignores you that in itself should tell you that he is not interested in you. I mean he does not even have the respect to even greet you. Your friends sound as if they were right. Stay away from him, he was only using you for sex. Next time be more selective in whom you involve yourself with. Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

If he just wanted you for sex then that won't change. That was a good reason to dump him. He seems to be immature in that he can't handle rejection. He seems to be immature in that he only wants you for sex. He seems to be immature in that he's giving you the silent treatment.

Your feelings stem from your animal mating instincts. The mature thing to do is realise that the evidence of his immaturity proves that your basic feelings are mistaken. It will hurt, but allow yourself time to get over those feelings. He is an idiot and if you do allow him to use you for sex, you will regret it.

So just ignore the fact that he's ignoring you. He's only doing it to make you feel bad. If he does something with the intention of making you feel bad, you wouldn't want him as a boyfriend, would you?

Answer 3

MOVE ON THERE WILL BE PLENTY MORE GUYS TO COME AND GO OUT OF YOUR LIFE AND JUST BECAUSE YOU LIKE SOMEONE DOSENT MEAN YOU HAVE TO SLEEP WITH THEM SO REMEMBER THAT.

Answer 4

theres a differnce between love and a crush

Answer 5

i think you should prolly just let him go, you're only gonna get hurt