to leave him alone stay out of his life and never contact him in anyway even though hes said these things many times before and still talks to you...do you do leave him alone?
2007-03-08 08:51:10 · 23 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you close your fingers in your car door, do you think that is enough to stop you from making sure you don't do that anymore?????????
stop smashing your fingers
2007-03-08 08:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as hard and as hurtfull as it will be. But I imagine thats exactly what he wants you to do. He more than likley still cares for you very deeply but just not in the way you would like. He more than likley wants to remain friends with you without the commitment of a relationship. I dont think he means to hurt you and may feel guilty for the way hes speaking to you. this is why he continues to talk to you after he has said it. Im sorry, I know how much this hurts. I have been through this myself. Just give him his space or you will end up putting yourself through hell.
2007-03-08 17:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to associate with someone like that? You should already be avoiding him, not just leaving him alone.
2007-03-08 16:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes leave him alone, if he wants you back he WILL come back to you. I promise. Show him that you don't need him, once he realizes you aren't around he'll be back. Because guys like what they can't have.
2007-03-08 16:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing games with you if he has said this before been there done that so u know what just dont contact him if thats how he wants it...then let him wonder why you are not contacting him....he wants to play then you play back...he will come around
2007-03-08 16:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by mommie2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him alone if that's what he wants.If he misses you than I'm sure you will see him again.
2007-03-08 16:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, leave him alone. Stop answering his calls. Stop walking in that revolving door of lunacy.
2007-03-08 16:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by kevness 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well does....he mean it...i mean when u no someone for along time u can tell when they mean it or not....and most likely he will get over it in about a week or two....just let him be the one to come up to u and talk.... like still say hey to him but call him...and stuff like that
2007-03-08 16:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doubting what he is saying? Don't sell yourself short, you are a good person find someone who will treat you the way you deserve.
Believe him and move on, he is trying to do the same.
2007-03-08 17:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what the definition of insanity is?
Repeating the same behavior over and over again and expecting a different result!
Think about it!
2007-03-08 16:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey that means he wants you to leave him alone bot he still misses you....i know from experience
2007-03-08 16:58:32 · answer #11 · answered by Mila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋