im gona make my gf choose between me and the other guy. if she doesnt wanna choose im gonna leave her. its gonna hurt so much but it would be whats best for me right? even though she told me ITS ME who she wanted to be with. im hurting..and im not gonna take it anymore. its me or him and if she can't make a decision i have to leave her and i have to get over her. how do i do that when shes all i ever think about?
she means a lot to me though. we're close.
she says its hard and it isnt fair for her cuz she has to hurt someone..and that she has no good reason to breakup with him. isnt the truth that she doesnt like him good enough? isnt that what we both deserve?
2007-03-08 08:45:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't deserve you, dont waste your time. I know you are hurting now, but trust me, its going to get better everyday. You going to find someone who loves you for you and you don't have to "share". Just leave her and keep yourself busy, take up tai-Kwan tao class, or whatever you always wanted to learnd but never had the chance. Just fill your life with busy and fun activities. Good luck!
2007-03-08 08:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st of all no man or women should make any1 choose between anything or anyone not only is it hurtfull but its wrong and if u ask me i think shes enjoying this makeing u choose in mean im a girl n if i had 2choose between 2 guys that that would gas my head up really nicely and it would make me feel big also shes leading u on u dont need that n it is a waste of time u dont need that u need a women u wont do that2 do n yes u will get over it time will heal all pain in ur heart belife u sound like a nice person n u will find sum1 who will care n love u n not waste ur time u need2 tell her 2 grow up
2007-03-08 08:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if she is thinking about dating someone else, leave her. Jeez. She obviously is not into your relationship if she is thinking about another guy. Why would you want to be with someone who does not make you her romantic priority? Be strong, move on, and find a girl who will treat you right. The best way to get over her is to cut off all contact for awhile. Tell you that your would like to be friends in the future, but that right now you need time to move on and allow your feelings to change. It just takes time.
2007-03-08 08:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Horace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I don't know all of the details here between the three of you little love birds and this triangle...but it's obvious to all of us who's not happy with the present existing arrangements here too. If she's two timing you,...ask yourself why this might be first. Ask her later. Somethings gone wrong if she has decided to be with another guy besides you. She does need to decide between the two of you...that's for certain...but understand enough about yourself to be able to say why in the heck should she choose you? Nobody likes pain and misery partner...so don't let it fall upon you. Crap happens...and people do sometimes change. You change things for YOU my friend. Let everyone else follow...if they want to. IF she wants you badly enough she will follow you ya know. If not..you'll have your answer for yourself anyways. Life sometimes deals us some crap. Wipe the crap out of your life...and get working on it today!
2007-03-08 08:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only getting half the story. Just like she tells you she doesn't have any good reason to break up with him, she also has reasons to stay with him. If she's with both of you then she hasn't made up her mind. You shouldn't have to put up with that. Wanting to be with you is good enough reason to break up with him. If it's not good enough for her you should just leave. It already sounds like you know that.
The best way to get over her is to just move on with your life. It's going to hurt but you'll feel better in the end.
2007-03-08 08:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Aerion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget what she's thinking. think about what you want. you can't juggle two guys. don't take that crap. if its you she wants to be with then you would not be here asking a question. deep down you know the answer but you don't want to admit it. she is a coward, and the longer she waits to make the decision, the more you will suffer. cut your losses short and focus on moving on and healing from this crap she's putting you through. the person you love should love you back and not put you through any BS.
2007-03-08 08:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she needs to be honest with both of you.
But the thing is...don't you think that she will do the same thing to you that she is doing to this other guy.
She might be all you think about but you need to think about the future also. It may not turn out the way you think it should but you still need to look at it.
I mean what good would it be for her to choose you then break your heart and do you the same way she is doing him.
Think about that!
2007-03-08 08:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no good reason to leave him than she does not live you.If she does not love you than she is not worth hurting over.You deserve better than that.Your happiness should be your first priority.I think you should find something else to occupy your mind.Make something else your center of attention.Try doing something just for yourself it might make you feel better,and who knows you might find someone.Good luck.I hope this helps you a little.
2007-03-08 08:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is she likes the drama of having two fools hanging in the balance.
The real question is do you like being treated like a doormat? and do you honestly expect to get better if she "chooses" you?
2007-03-08 08:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by summit_of_human_intellect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl have some problems...She must choose someone
2007-03-08 08:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by --Breathtaking-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋