2007-03-08 08:39:25 · 15 answers · asked by miggyjb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..I consider it a compliment really...but then that's just me. I like it when a woman has enough fortitude to walk up and strike up a conversation or a date opportunity. Sometimes we men have our blinders on ladies. We're just simply men after all. Smack us over the head when we're not paying you attention. We'll see through the forest shortly...if you'd only come over and clear a few trees for us babe.
2007-03-08 08:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it solely depends on the man. But from experience, as a woman I have found the best man to be in a relationship with is the one you come on to yourself. I've found the more confident guy, that has the confidence to approach you in the first place, unfortunately also has the confidence to approach the next thing he fancies. So I believe they are the ones to avoid, because they 'll stray when he'll see the next woman he fancies.
Despite this, I've found these confident guys don't like women coming on to them. There's no challenge in it for them. So you don't stand a chance with them...and there not worth it anyway.I've been in many relationships, and the good ones were the ones where I made the first move.They remained comitted. The disasterous ones were those that came on to me...they went of with other women behind my back
2007-03-08 16:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by lavito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it when the girls make the first moves... but sometimes the guys have to too. The girls should let the guys know they like them (at least subtlety) and then the guy should ask the girl out.
2007-03-08 16:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys find that a girl who is strong and has confidence in herself to ask the guy out really good and some guys think that their to strong. So i think it depends on the girl.
2007-03-08 16:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by whschick1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah. Infact it's very rare for me to date a girl who doesn't make the first move. Just the kind of girl I like.
2007-03-08 16:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The roles of guys and girls are very fuzzy these days. ALOT OF GUYS ARE ASKING THE SAME QUESTION! I say ask him out, what guy wouldn't be flattered by being asked out by a girl. enjoy the power of not playing a mere female and take a large stride. Check your mascara isn't running, your skirts not tucked in your panties and go for it girl!
2007-03-08 16:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked my boyfriend out.
From other past experiences it seems that guys like that the girl is showing interest, but make sure it doesn't just desperate.
2007-03-08 16:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by run_to_the_hills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how they do it... If they just come up to you and are like.. hey, I like you and we should go out sometime.. then its weird...
I think it is a girls job to make the guy want them... and to let them know you like them, but leave it at that... cuz if the guy wants you that bad, he will ask anyways...
2007-03-08 16:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes im a guy and i like it when girls make the first move...
2007-03-08 16:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes. if it's obvious...then it doesn't really matter. but if u don't kno if the other person likes u back..then is so weird!
but if a guy and a grl like each other then it doesn't matter.
but God says that the guy should be the man and ask her out.
2007-03-08 16:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋