I EVEN had a LIMO take us to and from the airport!
Was she "Wrong" or "Right" not to give me a lit'l som'in' som'in'?
2007-03-08 08:34:34 · 16 answers · asked by bpgveg14 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I'm gonna regret this...I knew the girl for a LONG time, and had dated her for quite a few months...
2007-03-08 08:57:38 · update #1
First dates usually never put out unless they are sluts..or if they like you alot.
2007-03-08 08:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by RKO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you chose to go through all of that? Was it because you really liked her and wanted to make her feel special? Or, you just wanted a lil something, something? Even though you went through great lengths for the date, she didn't have to give you anything...maybe a few kisses. This sure means that you're guaranteed another date and maybe you'll get a "lit'l som'in' som'in''.
2007-03-08 08:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Edieseb 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no such thing as right or wrong when it comes to this kind of thing. If your intention of doing all these was just because you want to get into her pants...then you don't deserve a lit'l som'in some'in in the first place
2007-03-08 08:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by uu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I can understand how you can come to the conclusion after going to such expense to see her that you would expect her to give you some. Although, she still was under no obligation to give you anything. I assume she did not pressure you into going to see her and spending money on a night out. This is why, in situations such as this, it is wise for the girl to set the guy straight beforehand so there is no misunderstandings later.
2007-03-08 08:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was neither right or wrong, You were wrong in assuming that if you spent all this money on her she was obligated to have sex with you. Guess you learned a valuable lesson, money isnt everything and you cant buy love. I take it that you expect every woman you date to give you sex on the first date just for having the honor of being with you. Get over yourself and start thinking of other peoples feelings.
2007-03-08 08:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What makes you think that you are entitled to a "little something" simply because you entertained a lady in a fine way. You got her company, you got to do something nice for someone and you had a good time, or at least you could have if you hadn't been thinking about "getting something".
Shame on you, that is OLD style thinking, and not cool at all. She's a lucky girl if she got away from you.
2007-03-08 08:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by toomeymimi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spending cash isn't the way to get sex.
It's kinda like the stigma of an easy woman who will do anyone with two legs...
Well for guys that are easy they spend cash. If they can get your money without sex, guess what!
Not all women are whres but many are in some way or another. Watch your pockets man!
2007-03-08 08:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no right or wrong. You flew her in for dinner. She didn't OWE you anything. If you really care for her continue to see her. If you are only after her body, stay away. Good Luck.
2007-03-08 08:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure there are Street Corners, in your town? That's where you find Skanks. You took a Lady Out. So you were expected to act like a Gentleman.
2007-03-08 08:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You just expecting her to give you sum is just the reason why she shouldn't I mean hello just cause you do something romantic doesn't mean she has to give you any.
2007-03-08 08:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋