I have a very happy life with my boyfriend...i think hes planning to ask me to marry him. We are i'm 20 & hes 21...is that a good age to get married? We have also slept together if that makes such a difference.....
2007-03-08 08:18:08 · 13 answers · asked by jackiebrawdy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as lond as u love him
2007-03-08 08:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping together doesn't make much of a difference to be honest. But yes it is a good age to get married. My parents got married when she was 18 and he was 20. And a friend of mine, her sister got married at 17. If you are planning on having kids it's better to have them in your 20's rather then 30's or 40's because you'll be less able to play active activities with them. My aunt is 28 and she wishes that she could be married already but she just hasn't found the right person and she is getting older and older by the day. Her chances are getting much smaller as the days go by. If you love him and he loves you then I think you should get married.
2007-03-08 08:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hard for you to believe me but 20-21 is way too young to get married. Once you get married, you will be with that person, hoefully for a long, long time. You need to celebrate your youth an d have plenty of space before you commit to a long term relationship with a contract. if you really love each other, be with each for 10 years and make sure this is what you want. You are a child still. Enjoy it while you can.
2007-03-08 08:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mark's Mine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 5 more years to marry and 5 more after that before kids, you are just starting. Stay together, Go slow, smell all the roses and then settle down to plant a garden.
2007-03-08 08:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific age that is good.
The good time to get married is when both of you know that you want to spend your life together. If you are not feeling it, then it is not the right time.
2007-03-08 08:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i cant personal judge if you should marry him. BUt if ya'll really and truely love each other then ya'll should get married. and the sex thing i think that its based on marriage but since ya'll are getting married i think its ok. But no one can tell you what age you should get married at. Everyone has they own opinion.
2007-03-08 08:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by whschick1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU GUYS ARE HAPPY ENOUGH TO GET MARRIED , AGE DOESN'T MATTER AND NEITHER DOES THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE SLEPT TOGETHER. IF YOU'RE IN LOVE - DO IT!!!! PEOPLE GET MARRIED AT ALL AGES.
2007-03-08 08:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a little young but if u really love each other you'll end up doing it anyway
2007-03-08 08:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its a terable age, be prepaired for a divorce, do u even live with him or do u each live with mommy and daddy, i see this heading down hill very fast and im not even kidding, flippin 20 years old your out of ur mind
2007-03-08 08:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are still young but it is ultimately your decision and only y'all know. But personally I would say wait a while. Enjoy being young.
2007-03-08 08:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by neicee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds sort of young to me...but if the two of you are happy, good luck!!!
2007-03-08 08:20:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋