okay so i went out with this guy right before christmas. and i really really liked him but somthing happened and we broke up. but i still have feelings for him. and my two best friends know this. anyways one of my best friends likes him now alot. and he likes her. theyll prob be going out by next week but i dont know what to do. case she knows i still like him but. idk should i say something to her? should i let it happen?
2007-03-08 08:09:41 · 18 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you should let it happen, and move on. You guys broke up because something went awry in the relationship. You'll always be able to find someone else. Sometimes feeling ain't so great and I'm sure you understand what i mean.
2007-03-08 08:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your friend talked to you about the situation? I apparent that you are uncomfortable with the idea, maybe your friend should try and take your feelings into consideration.....just as you need to consider hers.....I guess I'd talk to both parties independently....you definitely don't want any cross communications with this....If you truly believe that your friend and the ex-boyfriend have feelings that are pretty strong
then you'll have to deal with it and move on....this does by no means infer that you should ditch the friend....just try to always consider what is best all the way around.......
2007-03-08 16:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Odyssey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that you and the guy are finished let it go. Even if you like him you can't make him like you. So if he likes your friend let him date her. Even though your friend isn't being very nice this kind of thing happens all the time. You'll have to get used to it.
2007-03-08 16:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by panduhattack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just let it go and find another, life is more easy that way. there million and billion of guy like him out there but better, so wake up and smell the coffee. the more you date the stronger, happier you get. u have a whole lifetime ahead of u so don't be drown in these one find a closure between u and him good luck
2007-03-08 16:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Justaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. This is what i think. First you need to find out how he feels about u. U need to talk to him and find out if your relationship could work out. let him know how u feel. as for ur friend. just set down with her one on one and tell her exactly how u feel if u dont want to see them together let her know that. if she is any kind of friend she will take ur feelings into consideration.
2007-03-08 16:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by *~Gabby~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off, friends DON'T date friends ex-boyfriends... I mean that's just really harsh! I would def talk to her about it... That is so wrong! And if she still follows through with it, then she isn't such a good friend like you thought!
2007-03-08 16:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by *Red Hotts* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to your friend " I'm not really comfortable with you going out with (so and so) because I still have feelings for him. You would an even better friend than you already are if you would make this sacrifice for me."
good luck!
2007-03-08 16:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats whats happenign to me, now. My best friend john has a crush on my gf brooke. Trust me, they will break up in less than two months and your friendship is SO much more important. I say just grit your yeeth and bar it.
2007-03-08 16:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh.. hard spot 2 be in lol
i think you should tell her that u DO still like him and that you dont think it would be that nice to go out with him. If she still does go out with him... then i dont think she is really your friend. just try to get your other friends on your side as well. ** lol u always need backup**
i hope this helped =]
2007-03-08 16:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not sound like a very good friend. If you want to stay friends with her then you better just keep your mouth shut. If she starts dating him and knows you like him she won't want you around.
2007-03-08 16:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋