How can I tell if I am fat? What size do guys like best? Do guys like long or short hair better? Just wondering but what size chest to guys perfer??(i was just wondering) I've had one boyfriend in elementary school =P and I'm now in high school and ready to get my game on. I like this guy but we're so good of friends I'm not sure if I want to risk it. Should I wait for him to make the first move???? SOMEONE HELP
2007-03-08 08:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by Becca 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not be thinking about any of those things....Do you want to mold your type of a guy and if you do, do you honestly think any male would let you ?? You need to be who you are and not change for anyone especially a male. If you like your hair short, cut it for you not for him. If you want to be a negative 3 or a 32, that should be up to you. Good luck and remember your who you want to be no one else.
2007-03-08 08:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell if you are a little bigger than the average. It really shouldn't be about that as long as you are intelligent and able to hold a conversation and have a good personality and a sence of humor.
Long hair or short hair does not matter at all I mean there are way more things to be concserned with than the lenght of the hair.
Breat size doesn't matter that much either because at the end of the day there's nothing that you can do about it anyway. Just say No to the boob job.
Lastly if you like this dude you have to tell him. Just let him know that you are interested in him and that you would like to get to know him on a more personal level. He may be feeling the same way about you so you never know. Holla at him and let him know what's up and please don't try yo drop hints or clues just tell him.
Good luck
2007-03-08 08:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no one perfect size that every man wants, just take a look at the couples around you and you will see a large variety. Some guys like long hair and some like short hair, some guys like really skinny girls and some guys like heavy girls, some guys (most) like big breasts but some, like me, like small breasts. If you really want to know if you are overweight, ask your doctor the next time you see him. Eventually it comes down to who you are on the inside that will keep a man interested in you. If you really like this guy, ask him out, as friends, spend some time with him and try to get a feel for how he feels about you. You can ask him if he ever thought of you as anything other than a friend.
2007-03-08 08:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are variant in what size they want their boyfriend to be, but if you're like me, one boyfriend, or one good boyfriend in elementary, I'd be on the look out for someone better. As for the guy you like, or are friends with a little more than normal friends, I don't know, if he says no then you could possibly ruin your friendship, but if he's cool with it, and goes out with you, then that's good. Even if he says no, being a freshman so, I think he'll forget later on, so not really a big change. I'd go for him if I were you!
*Good Luck!*
2007-03-08 08:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Headfirst For Halos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are attracted to one thing...write this down, commit it to memory and let it guide you throughout your life.... ready?
CONFIDENCE. No guy likes a squirrely, insecure woman. Ever notice that guys all stare when a confident woman walks by and doesn't look at them? They are drawn to her because she is confident. So quit worrying about your weight, chest size or hair color. if you are happy with who you are, guys will be too.
Secret: Being confident is also a way to weed out the losers. Weak guys go after weak girls. Only a guy willing to work for your attention (not the other way around) is worth your time.
Good luck.
2007-03-08 08:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by TheAdviceGuy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sure youve heard this before and u think it doesnt matter...but you should NOT HAVE TO fulfill want 'every' guy wants.....a guy should like you for YOU!! even if YOU ARE FAT or skinny or have a little chest or big chest.....that doesnt make who you are its the inside that counts!!! every guy is different && likes different charasteristics in a girl....you cant fulfill all of them...most guys who are into big boobs, big butt..ARE SHALLOW!!! if you do have that-its just a BONUS- if not it shouldnt matter to them!! you dont need guys help, its all about you, && what makes you happy and how you feel...no matter how you look you 'should' be happy-god made you like that for a REASON! as for that guy if you guys ARE AS GOOD OF FRIENDS AS YOU SAY--you should go ahead && tell him,even if he doesnt feel the same way~you guys arent meant to be...., things shouldnt be awkard after if you guys have a good relationship....
2007-03-08 08:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by sgpinkie69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry if i were you, there's no such thing as a "size that guys like best" or anything like that. In my opinion a girl who's comfortable with her own appearance is far more attractive than anyone who's constantly stressing and dieting. Just be yourself and if this guy doesn't appreciate that then quite honestly he's not worth your time
2007-03-08 08:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well love waits for no one, show him the signs one at a time, so that he will confidently make a move, and dont think if u r fat or skinny, each of us are unique in our own way, we r what we are. and if a person really loves u, he shud love the real u. not the person he expects you to be... good luck, hope u find true love...
2007-03-08 08:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for how fat you are (which i highly doubt you are) check your bmi. there are plenty of bmi calculators online and you should aim for a little below normal. as for hair always go long. Chest should be small to medium, not huge or completely flat. i wouldn't wait for this guy if i were you. the idea of you 2 dating might not have crossed his mind, but if you ask it might very well appeal to him
2007-03-08 08:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by goalie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋