I have been with my this man for a year but he lived in a different city then me and came up to my house every weekends to see me. He was getting online alot talking to other girls (that's where we met) and had strange girls 2-waying him. I wouldn't worry so much but now that he lives with me when they 2-way he wouldn't ask or he will say I think you have the wrong number! The last time he did that the girl said is this (said is name) and he quickly shut off his phone! My ex best friend said he slept with her why I was at work once. Is he cheating? Should I be worried? What should I do?
2007-03-08 07:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lead him into believe you want to do bsdm. Tie him down firmly so he cannot move.
Get a knife and hold it by his "best friend" and tell him to spit out the truth or his best friend will get it. After he tell the truth, put sugar in car gas tank then kick him out.
2007-03-08 07:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, men cheat for three reasons. Because we can and because we do not expect consequences. That said, you knew what your guy was like when you met him and unless you were explicit in your expectations, he will continue to behave that way...especially if he feels that he can get away with it. So if you are unsure, ask him. And when he denies it, explain in no uncertain terms what it would mean if you found out that he had cheated. And none of that girlie crying either. Be firm.
Oh, and the third reason guys cheat..is because we enjoy the hunt and you are already captured. If he feels like he doesn't have to work to get you, then he will lay traps for others. You know how girls always want the bad boy they can't have...guys do it too with girls.
2007-03-08 15:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by TheAdviceGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's living with you doesn't necessarily mean that he isn't cheating. And if there are girls calling his 2-way and saying his name then yes he is probably leading other relationships with women. What type of relationships, I wouldn't be able to tell you. And if you ex-bestfriend said she slept with him while your at work, think to yourself why is she your ex-bestfriend? and do you trust her more than your boyfriend? You shouldn't worry yourself, you should do something about it and stop him from walking all over you if he is leading other romantic relationship with other women. Get your head out from between your ***. And re-evaluate the way things are going between you and him.
2007-03-08 15:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your ex-bestfriend risk losing your friendship by lying to you about having sex with your boyfriend? Why would she want to make herself look like a stupid s lut for the h ell of it? She may be a better friend (for telling you about it. I'm sure it's hard to tell someone what a dumb wh ore you are.) than you think. If you have reason to suspect someone for cheating than they usually are. Suspicious behavior doesn't usually occur when people are being good honest people.
2007-03-08 17:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should flat out ask him! See how he reacts and if you know him well, you should sense if he is telling you the truth, is he is a smooth talker, do some snooping and try to find some evidence. WARNING though, snooping can be dangerous, you might be disappointed to find out the truth!
Good luck!
2007-03-08 15:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you described, it is a possible that he is cheating. Before you go checking out is used under-clothes for signs of another woman, why don't you ask him.
2007-03-08 15:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hate to say this , but all signs point to yes, dump him, he's a loser, and you dont need him, find someone else who will love you , and wont cheat on you.
2007-03-08 15:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be worried. Make sure you have proof that he's cheating (Smelling like perfume/sex)
2007-03-08 15:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, hun.sounds like you have some investigating to do.if yu even doubt it in your mind, you need to say something to him and let him know how you feel and ask why he even wants to be with you if he is going to talk to other girls................ good luck
2007-03-08 15:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by kaligirl...xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES he's cheating, dump him and find someone that Doesn't cheat!
2007-03-08 15:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋